To answer your questions,
I feel great about my proportions, my wingspan is between 69.5-70 inches, my body looks extremely normal. I like to wear shorts with no shirt in the summer and nothing looks off, or concerned that my tibia look shorter. Since my ratio was .829 almost .83, my femurs were slightly shorter.
I feel femur lengthening is like a graph with a line that rises, it gets to a high point when you reach a good proportion, where I feel it helped my athleticism. I feel if I would’ve kept going the line would have come down, to each their own, it’s my opinion and experience. I know some are going to hate on my opinion regardless.
I feel my longer femurs helped me run faster, I just got to build the stamina now.
Remain active, even when you are in the distractions phase. Just be careful if don’t have the full weight bearing nail. I was doing supported treadmill walks during distraction phase, not everyday but at least three times a week.
To me personally, prior to surgery I didn’t have a huge physiological issue, but there was times where I did think to myself. I’d be nice if I was the height I am when I wore boots which was 1.5 inches. I didn’t have a huge issue with the ladies but I do get more looks my way. My height awareness is definitely not an issue anymore and it was totally worth it to me. I had the financial blessing to be able to get this done without loosing income. Would I do it again? Never lol.