Why Assayag over Paley (and/or other US doctors).
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Why Dr. Assayag?
My decision was both based subjectively and objectively but with less emphasis on the objective. I feel as though most the surgeons in the United States have a fairly solid base level of surgical knowledge and skill that keeps us patients safe. Their technique and skill are all above average. So the objective values are somewhat leveled on this side of the pond. Although with the help of a specialist colleague we did admire Dr. Assayag and Dr. Lee’s immaculate precision and details from previous patient’s x-rays that I spoke to. This was more a of in-the-industry geeky admiration thing.
The biggest difference for my choice was his care, attention, warmth, kindness, and genuinely active concern for his patients. And I put a big emphasis on active. This surgery, as we all know, is extremely difficult. And although there is a good bit of information with a straightforward process, there are some discomforts or unexpected experiences that happen along the way.
The unknown, for me, makes me feel uncertain and gives me some anxiety. I have never, in my career of being in a sector of the medical industry, have seen a doctor actively care for their patients in a way that Dr. Assayag did. He gives his patients/prospective patients his direct personal cell line. Even prior to surgery, after consultation, I asked him dozens and dozens of questions, without even having made a deposit yet. He was so friendly, answered everything, and never made an inkling of distain or arrogance.
In our rather fast paced world, the genuine soft paced care he gave stood out head and shoulders from the rest. Even after pausing my initial decision for a time being, Dr. Assayag reached out to make sure I was okay. If he cared that much before even receiving a deposit, it made me feel comfortable on how he could be after becoming one of his patients.
And now after surgery. Whenever I have an issue or question, he answers very quickly, anytime that he is not in surgery or having family time. When there is an issue, I always would wake up to a text message from him checking up on me and how I was doing. I appreciated it very much because I know he was actively finding time to do so between surgeries or appointments. And when the pain was high and/or morale was low and times were just tough, those little things really give a sense of comfort, that he was thinking about how I was doing.
If I ever felt uncomfortable or felt as though I needed slightly more attention, he would somehow squeeze me in same-day or next day even if the appointment list was full, to ease my concerns. I consider that above and beyond patient care.
So that is my personal reason for choosing Dr. Assayag. It is like a genuine mom and pop shop with simple love and care without the bureaucratic bull or tape.
But I encourage everyone who is considering LL reading this, you have to go visit the doctor you are willing to consider. It made a huge difference and impact for me.