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[mediocre]

Hey guys, based on your experience and doc's recommendation, when can you have sex earliest post-op?

Common sense dictates that some positions are definitely no-no. Like when can you have oral sex? Or masturbate?

It would be hard for me (pun intended) not get any for months.

I personally won't have rigorous sex (like missionary, etc) until my bone has consolidated enough.

I'm asking cuz I believe there are lots of anxiety and very few info on sex post-op. And this is a human need.

[crimsontide]

hmmm... i had sex very soon after operation

im not sure it was a good idea... it consisted of me laying there, and her getting into various positions

i guess its an issue, and sex drive is down, but in a way you'd expect while recovering... its not like i have no sex drive...

you can masturbate right away i think.... i know i did

[YellowSpike]

The main thing I'm worried about is when I can do my favoritie position (doggie style) again after doing femurs? I've banged some girls that were a little taller than me, and it was kind hard to do doggie. So I feel like the femur height gain will help there, but how long will I have to wait until I can kneel on my knees?

[crimsontide]

mmm. doggie, idk man... i have frames on


the moroccan girl had a great ass though, and  would get in a 69 position... so it was ok

might have to wait for doggie.....

[YellowSpike]

Yeah I feel like during LL (I'm doing internal femurs), you can really only have the girl do most of the work on top, or do basic missionary. And of course, 69/getting head is obviously easy.

[crimsontide]

yes....  i basically just  did nothing....

you'll be ok....

[KiloKAHN]

Guess it helps that reverse cowgirl is the position I like to see the lady most in. 

[crimsontide]

)) me too... my favorite

[TRS]

Trust me, sex will be the last thing on your mind for several w eeks after surgery. You may temporarily become assexual while LL.

[YellowSpike]

)) me too... my favorite

It's my second favorite after doggie 

[crimsontide]

rising is correct btw.... its not going to be an important issue for you while lengthening...

[BilateralDamage]

For me, femurs 2 months post-OP, I wouldn't risk any sex. Oral is the most of what I would do.  Doing doggy in this state is just stupid (and uncomfortable) as well as cowgirl, missionary, and anything else I can think of.  Stick to masturbation (or maybe assisted masturbation  ).

[programdude]

I am three-ish weeks post op and could force myself to have incredibly unsatisfying sex with them on bottom.

I've received oral several times during this time frame, and theres no reason you can't- but during lengthening you really arent even thinking about that.

I will say when being stimulated, being it oral or otherwise, it does distract from the aches and pains however- thats just how the brain works.

As far as doggie- the only way to pull this off would be to laughably have bars on either side to support yourself while you pounded away. In other words, not happening until consolidation is done.