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LittleMember

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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #31 on: December 21, 2022, 07:53:47 AM »

Even for an office/desk job? I have never heard of this. It sounds like a major breach of privacy. So each employee submits to a medical exam every year and the company HR gets to see it?

Do you mind sending me a link to this process please?

Every type of job. But you keep your privacity. If it is your wish, your job cannot be informed of any medical record of its employees.
That's how it works: the doctor establishes a document that determines if you are fit to work, or not after examining you. In my case, I saw the doctor a few weeks ago and determined that I was temporarily unfit to work. He determined that I had to work from home for a few weeks. So the job is obliged to accept the conditions set by the doctor. If the doctor had determined that I am permanently unfit, my job would have had the obligation to adapt my job, or to find me new functions that I am capable of performing given my disability.

When the doctor examined me, I gave him the report that my surgeon had written. In it the surgeon had indicated that he had performed an operation to correct the femur. Without more great detail. As a doctor, he did not attempt to establish whether this was true or not. The doctor simply saw that I was not able to walk without crutches and chose what was the best situation for me.  In my case, working from home until I can walk again without crutches. The doctor did not ask me X-ray or any medical exam. Of course, my company only knows my version. I told them I had an accident. It's a medical secret.
Actually, if you think about it, this is done to protect the worker.

Here you have some information for france. But it is more or less the same for each country of europe.
https://www.service-public.fr/particuliers/vosdroits/F34061
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #32 on: December 21, 2022, 02:04:14 PM »

damn I had no idea these rules existed

thanks for sharing!
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #33 on: December 21, 2022, 03:31:02 PM »

LittleMember if your local doc had found out you did cosmetic LL would you have been fired for not being able to work?

Or does it not matter whether you are unfit to work because you did cosmetic LL or had a fracture
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #34 on: December 21, 2022, 03:54:59 PM »

One guy @ Paley gave up in one  month and only grew less than couple of centimeters. He couldn't handle the pain and flew back home.

Are these people soft or are they regular who just had a bad experience?
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #35 on: December 21, 2022, 10:40:14 PM »

LL is very hard and painful and for many, if they don't technically abandon, they stop short of their objective (usually 8cm with Precise nails... people will go to 7 or whatnot)
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #36 on: December 22, 2022, 01:26:43 AM »

Mmmm i don't think so. Legally the fonctions of such doctor are very framed by the law. He or She has not the right to give for example an advice to a medical recovery. For example, he/she cannot say u must do that to recover from your leg. Just he/she can say u can or cannot do your functions at your job. Nothing more. For sure i am not gonna be the one who is gonna be honest and say that it was not a deformation, and that indeed was a cosmetic operation, but i am pretty sure the doctor cannot say any information to your job.
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #37 on: December 22, 2022, 01:44:33 PM »

Are these people soft or are they regular who just had a bad experience?

Once you go through the process of LL you'll understand even completing 1cm is extremely difficult and can be considered a gargantuan task. Truly, only go through this process if you really really really want it and are pretty much okay with being disabled for 4-5 months.
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LittleMember

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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #38 on: December 23, 2022, 01:29:34 AM »

Once you go through the process of LL you'll understand even completing 1cm is extremely difficult and can be considered a gargantuan task. Truly, only go through this process if you really really really want it and are pretty much okay with being disabled for 4-5 months.

Totally agree... The first cms are ok, from 4cm ahead i had the feeling it was really really hard.
Omg 4-5 months diseable... Im depressed when i see i am just 2 months from being disabled during a full year...  :'( And still i cannot walk without crutches... With which kind of nail you are just disabled for just 5-6 months? I suppose this people are not lengthening 8.5cm like me...
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #39 on: December 23, 2022, 06:23:24 PM »

Once you go through the process of LL you'll understand even completing 1cm is extremely difficult and can be considered a gargantuan task. Truly, only go through this process if you really really really want it and are pretty much okay with being disabled for 4-5 months.

Agree with this, although as someone going through LL right now, the pain of the process and the temporary inconvenience of disability is nothing compared to the profound emotional pain and shame of height neurosis.
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #40 on: December 28, 2022, 02:49:30 AM »

Agree with this, although as someone going through LL right now, the pain of the process and the temporary inconvenience of disability is nothing compared to the profound emotional pain and shame of height neurosis.
I agree about your comparaison, but it is really a different kind of pain  ;D
As a woman, I imagine the emotional pain was less harder than a man... But for me, working in a mostly men work, it was too hard to ignore it.
Personally, without Tramadol i could not have done all this process... Even more if you have to continue to work...

But still 1 year is f*cking long... Can someone tell me if he/she has been in the same situation than me?
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #41 on: December 28, 2022, 03:53:10 AM »

Hi there- happy to discuss in more depth off line. LL rehab doesn't necessarily have to be painful. Most of my clients do very well pain wise. There are a number of "levers" to pull to help manage the pain during lengthening.
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #42 on: December 28, 2022, 09:18:29 AM »

Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?


There were couple of instances during lengthening when I thought of giving up. I'm glad I had support from my dad who pushed me to reach my goal. Now I regret not doing full 8cm !!

Pain, tightness, bent knee, duckass etc. etc. does go away! If anyone is in lot of pain, take those damn painkillers. You can get off meds easily during consolidation.

Recently gained 6.9cm on femurs with precise. I'm at 5th month post op.
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #43 on: December 28, 2022, 11:51:33 PM »


There were couple of instances during lengthening when I thought of giving up. I'm glad I had support from my dad who pushed me to reach my goal. Now I regret not doing full 8cm !!

Pain, tightness, bent knee, duckass etc. etc. does go away! If anyone is in lot of pain, take those damn painkillers. You can get off meds easily during consolidation.

Recently gained 6.9cm on femurs with precise. I'm at 5th month post op.
Have you done both legs at the same time? How long was the lenghten process? 2.5 months?
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #44 on: December 30, 2022, 09:50:23 AM »

Have you done both legs at the same time? How long was the lenghten process? 2.5 months?
for me , 8 CM , 3 months .
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #45 on: December 31, 2022, 04:19:00 AM »

Have you done both legs at the same time? How long was the lenghten process? 2.5 months?

Yes, both legs at same time. My lengthening period was about 75 days for 6.9cm (I missed some distractions due to nerve pain and travel).
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #46 on: January 03, 2023, 05:41:31 AM »

Yes, a lot of people unfortunately has to stop due to the pain.
a guy who did it with me stopped at 3 CM LON femurs essentially due to the pain.
The pain is really not predictable, hit everyone differently, at the same time people have different pain thresholds of course.
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #47 on: January 03, 2023, 07:43:59 AM »


There were couple of instances during lengthening when I thought of giving up. I'm glad I had support from my dad who pushed me to reach my goal. Now I regret not doing full 8cm !!

Pain, tightness, bent knee, duckass etc. etc. does go away! If anyone is in lot of pain, take those damn painkillers. You can get off meds easily during consolidation.

Recently gained 6.9cm on femurs with precise. I'm at 5th month post op.

do not regret not doing full 8 cm... i've done 8.5 cm and i wish ive stopped before... Faster recovery and more proportional... i understand why doctors always say max 8 cm... 8 cm is already too much... i wish i have stopped at 7 cm
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #48 on: January 10, 2023, 06:04:19 PM »

One guy @ Paley gave up in one  month and only grew less than couple of centimeters. He couldn't handle the pain and flew back home.

That's pretty beta...and a very expensive mistake, he clearly didn't have real height dysphoria. 
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #50 on: January 13, 2023, 04:04:16 PM »

do not regret not doing full 8 cm... i've done 8.5 cm and i wish ive stopped before... Faster recovery and more proportional... i understand why doctors always say max 8 cm... 8 cm is already too much... i wish i have stopped at 7 cm

Dr Franz said around 6.5cm is the point before problems start increasing exponentially with femur lengthening and permanent tightness seems to be a feature with patients who have done 8cm plus so your probably onto something.
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Re: Is there a people who give up mid LL because it’s too painful?
« Reply #52 on: January 13, 2023, 11:51:48 PM »

Dr Franz said around 6.5cm is the point before problems start increasing exponentially with femur lengthening and permanent tightness seems to be a feature with patients who have done 8cm plus so your probably onto something.
Ok this is exactly what i feel... tightness... mmmm please say to me that is gonna disappear at some point...???
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