Look, as a guy who did the surgery...
I don't know you, and you asked for advise, that's what I have to offer. You can like or not it's up to you, it comes from an honest will to help.
People get in this forum into long debates about this surgery and the procedure, tibia or femur, 4 or 5 or 5.5 or 8 cm, proportions, etc etc....its easy to get caught in this and feel like this is your world when in fact, it's not. The real world is out there and it's full of people who think this surgery is pure crazy. And it includes many shorter guys. Shorter than average guys who of course would love to be taller but in no way in hell would consider go through this risky journey. Many girls (which obviously women are a huge reason for guys to do this) actually look down at a guy who did this kind of a surgery because it shows a serious lack of self confidence, some inferiority issues, superficiality and even lack of a mature judgement. I think a decent woman would prefer a shorter guy with confidence and charisma over a taller guy who got this surgery to be tall.
So in other words - try not to mix the guys in here and this forum with the real, sane people that are out there, which we all were a part of before this surgery infected our minds:)
Obviously, significantly shorter guys or girls that are met with this in every single social interaction or even on their own dealing with being below 1 percentile, would probably have a just case of going through this risky journey because the benefit outweigh the risks.
But for a person who is in a decent height? That's just unnecessary risk.
And for all your talk about being taller makes it less risky because of proportions etc, or even discussing whats the "safest" method, I'm sorry to say but thats just bullcrap.
You break your bones and practically maim your most essential function of your body - the ability to walk. Yes it may recover to normality but hardly it ever goes 100 percent normal and for a healthy, normal person to do it to his body, is pretty much cruelty. So for a normal height guy? That's plain crazy.
I actually think it's crazy for people of all heights even the shortest....but I guess some craziness is more justified than others.
That is my opinion only and I wish only the happiness and th best to everyone