I want to focus on the topic of post-LL dating in this thread. For most of us considering leg lengthening, height neurosis encompasses far far more than dating, but attractiveness to women appears to be one of the most immediately noticeable benefits of growing taller, and I’m wondering if those of you who had the procedure might shed some light on how growing taller has affected your dating life and how women view you.
Despite my height at 5’6, I am lucky enough to have an attractive face, athletic body, high social skills, and a full life, and I have never had a problem finding women to hookup with. I am very outgoing and when I notice that a woman is attracted to me at a bar, party, in a social group, or elsewhere, I am effective at turning those moments into dating opportunities.
However, I have also found that I have not been attracted to most women who are interested in me, and the women I do find attractive rarely find me attractive, and when I get dates with them due to my personality/social status/social skills I often face a lot of ambivalence, I tend to get strung along until they break things off, and I find myself in a situation where I am regularly tested and treated like a backup until I break it off or they do. My longest relationship with a woman I found attractive was anxiety ridden since I felt I had to play it perfectly to get her off the fence—almost to a manipulative level, where I never shared my emotions, needs, and concealed my high interest level, bolstered my options/feeling of abundance by playing the field in the early phase of dating, and even then it felt like she held all the cards in the relationship, which is not something I’d like to have to repeat every time I catch the eye of a really attractive woman.
I’m wondering whether any of you have seen improvements in that aspect of dating post-LL, whether growing taller has opened doors as far as options, and helped you find less ambivalence and testing behaviors among the most attractive women you’re talking to.