Hi guys, I am booking consultation with Dr Paley for November if the appointment is still available. They book very quickly. Hopefully from there surgery will be in January as those slots are also booking quickly.
I am wondering has anyone experience going from 5'4 to 5'7? I think it goes from extremely short to socially passable short/lower end of average. If someone has had this change, how did it improve your dating life, experiences in social situations, your self-conciousness, etc? Tbh I don't think I have strong height neurosis like I did when I was younger. However, I think there are objective societal benefits that will come by going from 5'4 to 5'7.
Going from short to slightly below average removes the negative aspects attached to it when standing near other people, but doesn't add anything to your self-worth, if you didn't have that before already. The subconscious comparison of heights between me and others in public has completely disappeared.
Around normal height, personality and face should outweigh the outcome in dating. It should not be a deal breaker for women who are willing to check for personality, so there's that advantage.
I don't think adding the new height in a dating profile changes anything, because girls assume you are around normal height if there's no hint. But I can't say for sure since I don't use dating apps even after LL. But I would never blame height again as a factor after having gone to normal height, even if I failed in dating.
Another benefit is clothing and chairs. I assume with below average height you would not fit in all of those...