OK so, I just look back at my paper note. I had femur surgery on feb 1st. On feb 15th I logged "Feel like I can start cognitive tasks. Longer sitting on wheelchair in front of computer is less painful".
I took 3 month off for lengthening. I came back to work few days after consolidation started.
"Can we work at all" - Yes, you can. Just note that it will be hard. The hard feeling fluctuates during lengthening (neither increases nor decreases). 2w after surgery is surgery pain. After this is stretch pain. You constantly lengthen your muscle daily, meaning every day the muscle complains to the brain that it's uncomfortable with the new length. This feeling is what distracted you. In addition, you need to keep up with PT 3-4 times a day, each time could be up to 2+ hours. Reason is because stretching during LL is harder, so your body naturally requests more rest in between exercises. All of these added up, I chose to rather not work.
"reduced your stress" - I didn't work for 3 months, every day I listened to music, watched fun youtube videos, watched movies at night, slept 2-3 times, played the last of us 2
"expect to lose the whole year" - no shouldn't be this much. I took off in Jan, back to work in April.
I don't know stryde but I guess the uncomfortable feeling of muscles remains the same. The only difference of stryde is that you can stand/walk which promotes faster bone growth.