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[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

Oh.  So they think I'm really my old height?

If in reality, girls' heights themselves are also factoring how tall you are. If they are very short they have to crane their neck to look at you and they are gonna be very prone to overrating your height and if they are very tall then the results will be opposite, as well as your proportion.
If on the Internet then you can inflate your height as much as you want and you can also decorate your selfies with filters and if done well you can look tall and handsome.

[ReadRothbard]

Oh.  So they think I'm really my old height?

In the online dating world, yeah, basically.

[Exxon]

Of course it matters if your country is also congested with toxic girls who are giving credibilities to such bs, and they turn to keep running mouths like men under 185cm are disabled, I will never date a man under 183cm, all of men I know of are all over 180cm+ so if you are not 180cm you are not a man, etc. Anyway I've really had enough of this. I gotta move out.
One day I am trapped in this cage I will never feel happy. I know I am being frenetic but it's just my expression of my intentions. If you are GenZ in China you will never feel happy if you are short. This country is screwing us up by involutions.

If you are taking trolls on the internet seriously then moving from China to USA will do absolutely nothing.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

If you are taking trolls on the internet seriously then moving from China to USA will do absolutely nothing.

At least the sxx ratio in USA is not as imbalanced as that in China. China's sxx ratio is 1.3:1.0, and it is getting more and more imbalanced. So if I don't move out to other countries I will as sooner or later get screwed up by toxic girls.

[stevens]

At least the sxx ratio in USA is not as imbalanced as that in China. China's sxx ratio is 1.3:1.0, and it is getting more and more balanced. So if I don't move out to other countries I will as sooner or later get screwed up by toxic girls.

There are biological reasons why there are slightly more boys born every year than girls. The 'natural' sxx ratio at birth is around 105 boys per 100 girls (ranging from around 103 to 107 boys). In some countries, the sxx ratio at birth is much more skewed than would occur naturally.

https://www.google.com/search?q=male+to+female+birth+ratio&rlz=1C1VDKB_esUS966US967&oq=ale+to+female+birth+&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j0i13l6j0i13i30l2j0i5i13i30.4984j0j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

[ReadRothbard]

If you are taking trolls on the internet seriously then moving from China to USA will do absolutely nothing.

I always like to say that your internet height is 2-3 inches taller than your real height.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

There are biological reasons why there are slightly more boys born every year than girls. The 'natural' sxx ratio at birth is around 105 boys per 100 girls (ranging from around 103 to 107 boys). In some countries, the sxx ratio at birth is much more skewed than would occur naturally.

https://www.google.com/search?q=male+to+female+birth+ratio&rlz=1C1VDKB_esUS966US967&oq=ale+to+female+birth+&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j0i13l6j0i13i30l2j0i5i13i30.4984j0j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

China's female infanticides and bias towards males are the culprit of this imbalanced sxx ratio. Some feminists on China's sites are condescending upon males just bc males are more than females, and they are blaming China's males for being uglier, shorter, duller and etc. than westerns, and they are convinced short males are garbages.
But you gotta learn how to filter out Internet stupid bs. At least in reality nearly all of GenZ girls I came across are not harmful like those on the Internet. Maybe it's time for me to quit surfing on the Internet.

[stevens]

China's female infanticides and bias towards males are the culprit of this imbalanced sxx ratio. Some feminists on China's sites are condescending upon males just bc males are more than females, and they are blaming China's males for being uglier, shorter, duller and etc. than westerns, and they are convinced short males are garbages.
But you gotta learn how to filter out Internet stupid bs. At least in reality nearly all of GenZ girls I came across are not harmful like those on the Internet. Maybe it's time for me to quit surfing on the Internet.

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[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

i do believe all are the same in real life. They just hide it. It´s their nature.

I don't think so. At least USA was not emphasized on agriculture as much as China in the past while China was biasing towards males cuz China thought women purely as 'fertilizable walking containers' and their life missions were just reproducing, and males can integrate themselve into the labor power for the agriculture so women's status was very inferior back then.
I don't think USA has such notorious history. USA prospected from advanced scientific researching institutes, educations, nearly complete isolations from World Wars, etc. to the strongest country all over the world. USA didn't use the same expedient as China's to develop itself. So the sex ratio in USA is relatively balanced, not like China, as well as the fact that USA's involution is not as severe as that in China.

[stevens]

I don't think so. At least USA was not emphasized on agriculture as much as China in the past while China was biasing towards males cuz China thought women purely as 'fertilizable walking containers' and their life missions were just reproducing, and males can integrate themselve into the labor power for the agriculture so women's status was very inferior back then.
I don't think USA has such notorious history. USA prospected from advanced scientific researching institutes, educations, nearly complete isolations from World Wars, etc. to the strongest country all over the world. USA didn't use the same expedient as China's to develop itself. So the sxx ratio in USA is relatively balanced, not like China, as well as the fact that USA's involution is not as severe as that in China.

It will be fun when you go to europe or the us

[stevens]

I don't think so. At least USA was not emphasized on agriculture as much as China in the past while China was biasing towards males cuz China thought women purely as 'fertilizable walking containers' and their life missions were just reproducing, and males can integrate themselve into the labor power for the agriculture so women's status was very inferior back then.
I don't think USA has such notorious history. USA prospected from advanced scientific researching institutes, educations, nearly complete isolations from World Wars, etc. to the strongest country all over the world. USA didn't use the same expedient as China's to develop itself. So the sxx ratio in USA is relatively balanced, not like China, as well as the fact that USA's involution is not as severe as that in China.

Don´t cheat and go for latina women. That is not fair, go for white women to not play on easy mode.

[stevens]

Don´t cheat and go for latina women. That is not fair, go for white women to not play on easy mode.

i was thinking. Yes you can. being my height

[Medium Drink Of Water]

I don't think so. At least USA was not emphasized on agriculture as much as China in the past while China was biasing towards males cuz China thought women purely as 'fertilizable walking containers' and their life missions were just reproducing, and males can integrate themselve into the labor power for the agriculture so women's status was very inferior back then.
I don't think USA has such notorious history. USA prospected from advanced scientific researching institutes, educations, nearly complete isolations from World Wars, etc. to the strongest country all over the world. USA didn't use the same expedient as China's to develop itself. So the sxx ratio in USA is relatively balanced, not like China, as well as the fact that USA's involution is not as severe as that in China.

The U.S. was extremely agrarian in the beginning.  Men were farmers and construction workers, and women were mothers and cooks and tailors.  If a family didn't have enough sons they were in trouble, and they could never really have too many.  In many ways daughters were a burden, especially if a family had a lot.

The science came later, imported from Europe.  I think the differences come from western philosophical/political thought.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

The U.S. was extremely agrarian in the beginning.  Men were farmers and construction workers, and women were mothers and cooks and tailors.  If a family didn't have enough sons they were in trouble, and they could never really have too many.  In many ways daughters were a burden, especially if a family had a lot.

The science came later, imported from Europe.  I think the differences come from western philosophical/political thought.

All right, seems I am new to the American history. But I am curious if it is also happening that due to various reasons, men are very amenable to women's requirements for them, therefore women are condescending upon men gradually more and more and they are even already convinced only Brad Pitt can become their bfs, etc.? As far as I am concerned I don't think it is also happending in USA. In China bc of this bizarre and stupid streak of hetreosexual treatments, males are completely living up to women's expectations and if you can't you are cast by the society. This country is just so pathetic.
Now what city I am living in also became stupid. It locked the whole city already for more than a week and I am already grounded in my own house for this long. I hope my country can become more matured and considerate, otherwise I will move out.

[stevens]

All right, seems I am new to the American history. But I am curious if it is also happening that due to various reasons, men are very amenable to women's requirements for them, therefore women are condescending upon men gradually more and more and they are even already convinced only Brad Pitt can become their bfs, etc.? As far as I am concerned I don't think it is also happending in USA. In China bc of this bizarre and stupid streak of hetreosxxual treatments, males are completely living up to women's expectations and if you can't you are cast by the society. This country is just so pathetic.
Now what city I am living in also became stupid. It locked the whole city already for more than a week and I am already grounded in my own house for this long. I hope my country can become more matured and considerate, otherwise I will move out.

To me chinese women have 10 times more wife material than white women (their behavior, cooking and more). (i am not going after for them)

[stevens]

To me chinese women have 10 times more wife material than white women (their behavior, cooking and more). (i am not going after for them)

big ed is 4' 11

[AllinStryde]

Short at 5'9"??  I had CLL and I'm still not as tall as you...soooo maybe just get off Tinder.  And yes, many women prefer an ugly tall guy over a handsome, short guy.  Height trumps all other qualities.  Sad, but true.

[ilovescience]

Short at 5'9"??  I had CLL and I'm still not as tall as you...soooo maybe just get off Tinder.  And yes, many women prefer an ugly tall guy over a handsome, short guy.  Height trumps all other qualities.  Sad, but true.

Is it possible that when some women who care about height don't think height matters at all once they get older? Like they probably learn something from the world and will try to focus on other things a man has.

[informationispower]

Short at 5'9"??  I had CLL and I'm still not as tall as you...soooo maybe just get off Tinder.  And yes, many women prefer an ugly tall guy over a handsome, short guy.  Height trumps all other qualities.  Sad, but true.

Some do and some dont.... from my experience, you need to be atleast taller than the girl and afterwards face comes into play.
Also, it depends whats your height... if you are below 170cm than yes, you have a big problem. I am 171 and had a fair success with women and am about to get married but still want to do LL

[ilovescience]

Some do and some dont.... from my experience, you need to be atleast taller than the girl and afterwards face comes into play.
Also, it depends whats your height... if you are below 170cm than yes, you have a big problem. I am 171 and had a fair success with women and am about to get married but still want to do LL

If a man is around 168-172, do most women usually think that man is 170 with their first guess?

Sometimes a man may appear slightly shorter due to constant compression to their spinal cord or slightly taller because they often do stretching.. it's pretty hard to tell if a man is exactly 170 tall by nked eyes. When a man is walking...

[tao]

Yeah I guess that's very unheard of for you in USA. In China at least On Internet loads of rhetorics like 'I am 'only' 187cm and I am the shortest among my peers!', ' I am only 180cm and when I hit the Northern China I am the shortest all the time', etc.
I think that's very alien to expats like in USA, Japan, Britain and other countries, but in China this kind of bs is very popular. I also ran into random guys who said nowdays 8 y.o average height for boys in China is already 160cm+ which means if I were a teacher in primary school I can be towered by a helluva 200cm+  11 y.o giants which is very hilarious.
That is also one of the reasons why I gotta migrate over other countries like USA. I know heightism in USA is also severe but I also can't live in a country riddled with lies like that.
The craziest thing was, that girl is only 16 y.o and also a Depression patient.
Some guys are persuading me to quit the plan of migrating over USA by any means cuz USA's heightism is also like hell. But do you think it's worth it to live in a country full of rhetorics?

中国就是搞传销吹牛逼世界第一。。哈哈哈，这你都不习惯还能在国内活吗

[ilovescience]

中国就是搞传销吹牛逼世界第一。。哈哈哈，这你都不习惯还能在国内活吗

關於這一點，每個人的看法都不一樣。不過中國大陸在醫學的進展上好像有很大明顯的進步。中國大陸的美食及歷史還有文化在世界上都有很大的影響力，對吧！最近很多歐美學生不是學中文就是學日文。

[tao]

讲中文的，华人啊，台湾人吗？
你自己做过cll手术吗？在哪里做的？
感觉怎么样？
我几乎很确定我想做这个手术了，现在正在赚钱哈哈。

[ilovescience]

讲中文的，华人啊，台湾人吗？
你自己做过cll手术吗？在哪里做的？
感觉怎么样？
我几乎很确定我想做这个手术了，现在正在赚钱哈哈。

哈哈，你怎麼會猜我台灣人呢？！
目前沒打算做，期待科技發展能出現更不痛的增高方法。

[tao]

繁体字呗，不是香港就是台湾。我猜的。哈哈、
我可能想去西班牙做，我现在在法国。
你有中意的医生吗

[ilovescience]

繁体字呗，不是香港就是台湾。我猜的。哈哈、
我可能想去西班牙做，我现在在法国。
你有中意的医生吗

被你猜對啦！
其實台灣基本上是沒有替人做斷骨增高的，這不被視為醫美用途，除非是天生長短腳醫院才可能做。不過，有一些醫生還是會偷偷替病患做，但那是違法的。
你可以考慮去韓國做比較划算吧。韓國那邊有一位好像叫Dr.Lee的替不少人做了斷骨增高手術，而且滿意度相當高！請問一下內地不是也很多醫院有做斷骨增高嗎？不需要飛到很遠的國家做吧！目前這手術在你們那邊有越來越普嗎？
另外能在這邊遇到華人朋友真的很高興呢！真的很高興可以跟你閒聊阿！請多多指教！
你是怎麼發現這個網站啊？剛剛註冊嗎？呵呵。

[tao]

我找到这个网站很久了，大概有两年了。大陆是不允许因为医美原因做这个手术的。而且现在回国太麻烦了，因为需要隔离。
dr lee很难约。我可能考虑就在欧盟做了。
如果我做了我也会写一个 journal 回报这个社区。
我可能需要做一只腿然后再做另外一只腿，因为没有人照顾我。

[ilovescience]

我找到这个网站很久了，大概有两年了。大陆是不允许因为医美原因做这个手术的。而且现在回国太麻烦了，因为需要隔离。
dr lee很难约。我可能考虑就在欧盟做了。
如果我做了我也会写一个 journal 回报这个社区。
我可能需要做一只腿然后再做另外一只腿，因为没有人照顾我。

好像是喔！常常看到很多網友試著聯絡韓國的李醫生預約做斷骨增高，但都沒有下文。我也有跟本站的一名日本女網友談論到為何日本國內沒有做斷骨增高，她告訴我說那手術在日本也不能以醫美的名義替病患做。這也表示這個手術仍然存在著一定的風險程度。

你是打算先拉長一隻腿等它癒合後再拉長另一隻腿嗎？他們斷骨可以這樣做嗎？ 。

[tao]

可以的。这个forum里有好几个都这样子做的。
不过这样会延长整个手术时间。会延长到1年这样子。

[Heinz.Looks]

If you’re 5’9” you’ll do fine, especially if you have decent disposable income.

Alpha fux, Beta bux.

That's what we want... to be seen as a disposable walking ATM machine 

[Heinz.Looks]

My man, you are 37 years old yet you write like you are 16. Ghosting happens all the time in online dating and being 5'9 is not the reason. I am 5'7 and was never ghosted because of it but I was ghosted many times and I myself ghosted as well. About how do you compete with 6'3, you don't since its not a height competition

Of course it's a height competition.

And being 5'9 can be a great deterrent, depending on where you live.

180cm or 6 feet minimum on most Online Dating plattforms.