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[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

I am not giving up my life as some guys hostile towards me thinking of me cuz I am spouting a series of extreme viewpoints on this forum and not working on other aspects of my life in great desparates. But I am lost in how to achieve respects and confidences prior to LL and I know some guys will recommend me body building but I also saw some ppl said short men don't deserve body building cuz they are gonna look like a strong 12-13 y.o kid so forget about body building.
But I gotta make a head-up I am not all the time immersed in desparate like I look like on this forum and it's just that everytime I log in this forum that means I am feeling inferior about my height and the rest of my leisure time I am feeling very well.
I worked out three ways:
1.Join in a group/association discussing about some stuffs or holding activities that you are interested in but it's better to partake in those that don't need you to socialize with others offline cuz if offline you will feel outshone about your body and then your height neurosis will crack you up but if you don't need to escape from it then whatever.
2.Reading books, learning some courses, and even solve engineering/scientific problems/puzzles to achieve intelligence confidences, or if you are not a fan of the stuffs in those veins then achieve confidences in some games is another option but it tends to damage your body and sanity if you are addicted to them.
3.Working on your face, through learning knowledges about skincare, dress-up, or even plastic surgeries. I know some guys will retort me that if you are short your face is just a breeze but now that you are suffering from self-consciousnesses led by height neurosis(a sub form of body neurosis) then improving your face can make sense thereof.
Appreciating your guys' extensions!

[ilovescience]

Life can be fun, and it is not about height.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

Life can be fun, and it is not about height.

I don't think you are wrong but it is heartbreaking as hell if your height is around or even under -2SD of the average height.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

About how to improve your face, I have created a thread before:
http://www.limblengtheningforum.com/index.php?topic=69358.0

[Exxon]

Join university societies if you're in university. Fun way to kill time and make friends.

Video Games

Movies

Study random skills

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

Join university societies if you're in university. Fun way to kill time and make friends.

Video Games

Movies

Study random skills

I found it hard to socialize with others or even set up a social circle when you are too feeling inferior about your height like me. I am also attempting to get rid of being lonely but I am always agitated about my being short inducing to others' poking fun at my height or disrespecting me due to my height.. Yeah it pretty sucks as hell but I am changing my tactic——I am fixated on those short guys who have something in common with me. But I found no one. So it's kinda thorny.

[ilovescience]

Join university societies if you're in university. Fun way to kill time and make friends.

Video Games

Movies

Study random skills

Nostalgic. I remember when I was a university student, I could see many people buying DS and playing it during the free time. Video games is a good way to make friends.

[ReadRothbard]

Strength training and getting to a low bodyfat is pretty much always going to be the best non-surgical thing you can do for your looks/self-esteem.

[ilovescience]

Strength training and getting to a low bodyfat is pretty much always going to be the best non-surgical thing you can do for your looks/self-esteem.

Is strength training same as weight training in the fitness center?

[Exxon]

I found it hard to socialize with others or even set up a social circle when you are too feeling inferior about your height like me. I am also attempting to get rid of being lonely but I am always agitated about my being short inducing to others' poking fun at my height or disrespecting me due to my height.. Yeah it pretty sucks as hell but I am changing my tactic——I am fixated on those short guys who have something in common with me. But I found no one. So it's kinda thorny.

Wear those 3 inch thick shoes and then socialise, they look like normal shoes and they give you 5-6cm of height.

https://shoesthatmakeyoutaller.com/shoes/elevator-tennis-shoes?attribute_pa_color=black&attribute_pa_height-increase=39in&attribute_pa_size=95&currency=AUD&gclid=CjwKCAiAyPyQBhB6EiwAFUuakvbe-p3EBI0CK71dsdkBPNGGBr0ufTiNRmaaDsyElpMl9Sem4V-iWBoCw4QQAvD_BwE

[zaozari]

Using elevator shoes some time before surgery may also have the advantage that less people will notice your height gain and starts making questions after LL. After lenghtening, as somebody here suggested, you can start to use again elevator shoes but starting by low height and slowly increasing it again if you wish.

[ReadRothbard]

Is strength training same as weight training in the fitness center?

Yes, but it's a focus on building strength instead using weights for something like cardio.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

Using elevator shoes some time before surgery may also have the advantage that less people will notice your height gain and starts making questions after LL. After lenghtening, as somebody here suggested, you can start to use again elevator shoes but starting by low height and slowly increasing it again if you wish.

I never used elevators cuz not only will it seem to others you are feeling upset about your height but also they will somehow ruin your proportion if your proportion is not excellent originally

[ilovescience]

I never used elevators cuz not only will it seem to others you are feeling upset about your height but also they will somehow ruin your proportion if your proportion is not excellent originally

It's also not easy to do exercises or sports by wearing elevator shoes!? Easy to fell down to floor if the shoes wrong size.

[zaozari]

I never used elevators cuz not only will it seem to others you are feeling upset about your height but also they will somehow ruin your proportion if your proportion is not excellent originally

You just shouldn't exagerate height of shoes and choose the right ones. Nobody will think you're upset because if you do it right (for example slightly covering the front foot with the trousers), nobody will notice. Changes in proportions are well within natural individual differences specially for short people that have also relatively short calves.
It never happened to me that somebody found something strange, I observe it carefully and indirectly asked other people. You can use natural brand shoes with or without elevated insoles like Dr. Martens (6 cm height) that barely have an external visible heel or Nike Air (less height). You can also add an interior insole with 1" height heel (more is not usually confortable and may get visible because if it's not boots you get a visible elevated ankle out of  the shoe if you cross legs). If you make some experiences, you will find a way to "elegantly" "grow" at least 5 cm easily :-)
But it's hardly adequate for practicing most sports if it's not normal sport shoes (like Nike Air).

[zaozari]

I never used elevators cuz not only will it seem to others you are feeling upset about your height but also they will somehow ruin your proportion if your proportion is not excellent originally

But if you lenghten 16 cm as you absolutely decided (?), you'll have your proportions *ucked up anyway (arms, torso,....). What's the problem with 1 or 2 inches insoles or nice elevator shoes (or even Nike Air)?

[zaozari]

I am not giving up my life as some guys hostile towards me thinking of me cuz I am spouting a series of extreme viewpoints on this forum and not working on other aspects of my life in great desparates. But I am lost in how to achieve respects and confidences prior to LL and I know some guys will recommend me body building but I also saw some ppl said short men don't deserve body building cuz they are gonna look like a strong 12-13 y.o kid so forget about body building.
But I gotta make a head-up I am not all the time immersed in desparate like I look like on this forum and it's just that everytime I log in this forum that means I am feeling inferior about my height and the rest of my leisure time I am feeling very well.
I worked out three ways:
1.Join in a group/association discussing about some stuffs or holding activities that you are interested in but it's better to partake in those that don't need you to socialize with others offline cuz if offline you will feel outshone about your body and then your height neurosis will crack you up but if you don't need to escape from it then whatever.
2.Reading books, learning some courses, and even solve engineering/scientific problems/puzzles to achieve intelligence confidences, or if you are not a fan of the stuffs in those veins then achieve confidences in some games is another option but it tends to damage your body and sanity if you are addicted to them.
3.Working on your face, through learning knowledges about skincare, dress-up, or even plastic surgeries. I know some guys will retort me that if you are short your face is just a breeze but now that you are suffering from self-consciousnesses led by height neurosis(a sub form of body neurosis) then improving your face can make sense thereof.
Appreciating your guys' extensions!

FINALLY A POSITIVE, SMART, SENSIBLE, RESPECTFUL, CONTRIBUTION, elevators apart, compared to all other "Sorcerer" (="PET") 's topics and posts.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

FINALLY A POSITIVE, SMART, SENSIBLE, RESPECTFUL, CONTRIBUTION, elevators apart, compared to all other "Sorcerer" (="PET") 's topics and posts.

Do you really think apart from spouting your so-called 'self-inflicted' theories on this forum I am not really doing anything else LOL?
I am also spending leisure time on solving college Math problems and reading Data Structure textbook and I just have yet to on purpose bring it up but now that you think I am just spewing extreme theories then it's time I gotta inform you of that.
What's more self-value expressing, I am also grinding on my own philosophy book named <Balance and Equality> and I am also designing my second book about humanity, including human's ethnics, laws, mental activities, etc. So what do you think I am doing? Just  like a 11/12 y.o kid who at the same time invaded into this forum and keep ruining this forum with chewing Lay's and drinking Cola Cao LOL? If you don't believe I am really working out on random books I can give you the full texts but they are all in Chinese and not translated although I can translate them as well. I just can't spare that much time to do that.

[zaozari]

Do you really think apart from spouting your so-called 'self-inflicted' theories on this forum I am not really doing anything else LOL?
I am also spending leisure time on solving college Math problems and reading Data Structure textbook and I just have yet to on purpose bring it up but now that you think I am just spewing extreme theories then it's time I gotta inform you of that.
What's more self-value expressing, I am also grinding on my own philosophy book named <Balance and Equality> and I am also designing my second book about humanity, including human's ethnics, laws, mental activities, etc. So what do you think I am doing? Just  like a 11/12 y.o kid who at the same time invaded into this forum and keep ruining this forum with chewing Lay's and drinking Cola Cao LOL? If you don't believe I am really working out on random books I can give you the full texts but they are all in Chinese and not translated although I can translate them as well. I just can't spare that much time to do that.

WTF...You changed back to "Sorcerer" again after turning to "PET" first and then to "ManWithLeukemia" in the last days??

You're really nuts and dishonest.

You didn't understand that even after not standing up with you anymore I was still trying to help you in two other topics due to some sympathy and to your psychotic total desperation.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

WTF...You changed back to "Sorcerer" again after turning to "PET" first and then to "ManWithLeukemia" in the last days??

You're really nuts and dishonest.

You didn't understand that even after not standing up with you anymore I was still trying to help you in two other topics due to some sympathy and to your psychotic total desperation.

MOD told me not to change my username to the one including distorted ideology so I changed my username back. So what's wrong?

[zaozari]

You, you are all wrong. You are a walking cancer dreaming powerlessly about getting longer legs. Your record in this forum is a comic tragedy for psychiatric textbooks.

[virginforeverlmao]

@Sorcrer what is your current height that makes you feel so bad about yourself?

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

@Sorcrer what is your current height that makes you feel so bad about yourself?

162cm, which imo is not better than those situations that I was describing.

[virginforeverlmao]

okay, 1,62m indeed is not an easy height. If you can afford LL, you can try to reach 1,70m.
Else I can only tell you to try to improve other traits that women look for in men. 
Some women will notice that. Create the best version of yourself. Make that your ultimate goal
and work towards it.

Dont just throw your life away because of one characteristic you dont have.
There is more to a human being than height. Instead focus on the good things.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

okay, 1,62m indeed is not an easy height. If you can afford LL, you can try to reach 1,70m.
Else I can only tell you to try to improve other traits that women look for in men. 
Some women will notice that. Create the best version of yourself. Make that your ultimate goal
and work towards it.

Dont just throw your life away because of one characteristic you dont have.
There is more to a human being than height. Instead focus on the good things.

Yeah it's too emasculating that I'd rather sacrifice 95% of my life time for being 188+cm and I don't wanna live at this height for a lifetime. That's too distressing and debilitating. I am rn really convinced dying young is not the worst at all unless you are living a happy life.
But all negative ventations aside. I concur with your suggestions to me here and I am not giving up and I am really working on other attributes of myself. I am a big fan of Physics, Math, Philsophy and Music. So I am not a midget without any bonus like someone here is thinking of me.
I am also grinding on my own book named <Balance and Equality> but due to the Graduate Entrance Examination I can't work on it with full concentrations. I shared it with several friends and they all gave a thumb-up. So I think if I can toil through it I can achieve great societal respects and self-confidences.

[HateLAPELoveSTEM]

You, you are all wrong. You are a walking cancer dreaming powerlessly about getting longer legs. Your record in this forum is a comic tragedy for psychiatric textbooks.

IMO it's very normal to have mental illnesses as a manlet tbh.

[Mine]

I don't think it's possible.