I read many journals on this forum, and discovered lots of valuable information that helped me preparing and enduring this crazy journey. I want to write this journal to contribute and share my experience. I hope some people may find this helpful.
This is a summary of my journey.
Info about me:Age: 39
Sex: Male
Height: 157 cm
Race: East Asian
Femur Lengthened: 8 cm
Final Height: 165 cm
Status: In consolidation phase
Background: I was depressed during most of my high school and college years due to my height. I am pretty much at the bottom of height percentile even for an Asian. I have thought about LL surgery many times, but I always thought that it’s a dangerous procedure, which it still is, and that the new bone would be more fragile.
The depression went away after I graduated from college and started working like a workaholic. I eventually got married, twice actually, to two beautiful girls by most standard.
I still hated my body. I have short leg, long torso, and relatively big head which amplify my short height even more.
I recently divorced from my 2nd marriage and now back in the dating pool. A guy with my height will likely be dismissed by most girls, if I disclose it in the online dating game. If I don’t disclose my height, then I'd always fear and dread of meeting the girl in person.
The divorce and my age really motivated me to get LL.
Result:When I woke up from surgery, I thought this was the dumbest thing I've ever done. After blood, sweat, and tear, I now think this was the best money I've ever spent.
While 165cm height is still considered short by most standard, I look so much better in the mirror standing up. My body is much more proportional than before. I no longer look like super short guy anymore, just merely short/below average height guy. I feel content with that.
To anyone with similar height (157cm), 7-8cm height increase would make a huge difference for your body. You don't have to have 2 surgeries to achieve +13cm in order feel any difference. Get femur LL done first, recover then evaluate if you still want to get tibia LL later.
Process:I contacted Paley Institute, and they were able schedule the surgery in 4 weeks. The consultation and surgery is within the same week. I was lucky since surgery with Dr. Paley is usually scheduled months in advance.
Accommodation:I booked 3 months stay at Homewood Suites, which is only 5 minutes from the Paley Institute and the hospital. The Paley Institute building is in the same campus as St. Mary’s hospital. They provide free transportation from/to the campus from this hotel.
My ex-wife (long story) is staying and helping me during this whole process. You definitely need a helper, at least for the first few weeks.
Work Arrangement:My full time job is in engineering. Due to COVID last year, we had to work from home for more than 6 months. So my employer are now more receptive to remote working arrangement.
I informed my boss about my upcoming surgery, and will take 2 weeks of sick leave + vacation. I plan to return to work (remote) after 2 weeks.
Diet:I’ve been eating a zero carb diet, on and off, for the last 4 years. Almost no starch, sugar, or even vegetable. All foods I consumed are from animals: beef, pork, chicken, seafood, etc. I believe this is the healthiest diet for my body and mind. I’m not a doctor and I don’t recommend anyone following this diet without performing substantial research.
I maintained this strict diet through the whole process. I credit this diet for my quick recovery.
Lesson Learned:I focused on stretching before surgery and neglected cardio and upper body strength training.
I’m a small guy, so I run out of breath very easily on cardio activities, if I'm not conditioned to it. I haven’t done any cardio activities for 1-2 months before surgery so I was really out of shape. I reason I stress cardio is that it let your heart and lung used to physical stress (e.g. surgery). While the surgeons was drilling and reaming by bone, my lung didn’t like it. It was not ready for this kind of stress, so they had to put me on a ventilator.
My upper-body strength was pushed to the limit post surgery for using the walker and transferring from/to wheelchair-bed-walker-toilet-car. Luckily my body quickly adapted within the first week post surgery. Probably thanks for the copious amount of proteins I consumed.
Pain Management:I was prescribed Oxycodone and Tylenol. Oxycodone did wonder for the pain, but I didn't feel any different with Tylenol.
To manage my pain, I took about 3-4 Oxy pills (5mg) each day. One before bedtime, one in the middle of the night, and one before each PT session. I was able to stop taking all pain meds on the fifth week post surgery.
Sleep:I only slept 2-3 hours each night for the first 4 weeks. I took a 1-2 hours nap after each PT session.
I found lack of sleep during the first 4 weeks very draining. The pain and bladder kept waking me up in the middle of the night. Lack of sleep definitely took a toll on me physically and psychologically.
I was able to sleep normally again, 6+ hours, without pain on my 5th week.
Physical Therapy:I go to PT once a day for 1 hour. I stretched myself after last lengthening session of the day, just before bedtime.
For self stretching, I recommend to focus on 3 main stretches: hamstring, quad (knee bend), and Thomas.
I found PT pretty easy until I hit 3-4cm. My quad, hamstring and IT band all starting to get tight. Even though I never had duck ass or wide leg, PT started to became painful. At this point, I started taking half of an Oxy pill 1 hour prior to PT. This helped me fly through PT with much less pain.
At 6cm, I was losing the battle with my muscle tightness, no matter how much I stretched. I kept on pushing as long as I was able to bend my knee more than 90 degree, and kept my leg straight while standing up or laying down. I eventually reached 8cm without slowing down the default distraction rate (1mm per day).
Equipment I bought:I was losing much of my butt muscle and fat, to the point of my tail bone being painful while sleeping on my back. I bought a mattress topper, which relieve most of the pain.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072Q5LYW2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1I also bought a seat cushion for the wheelchair.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07LB8TRL3/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1Reading other journals, I knew that I would need to save/ration my pain med (Oxy) for the last few weeks of the journey. I needed a pill cutter to reduce my Oxy intake.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001KYVO78/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1Soft hand grip for walker:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004D0HWUE/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1Strap for self stretching:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00065X222/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1Hand rail for toilet:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B075NRWN1Q/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1Shower chair:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001CBA0EM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1Laptop desk for bed:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0149SD6T0/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1Heating pad:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08MV3Z3GK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1I will update the journals with surgery, recovery and weekly experience later.