Veterans coming back ocassionally, absolutely normal and I much appreciated. I should've clarified I meant I referred to those that stay on these forums as much as I do years and years after their entire process is done, participate in the forum extremely often as much as I do, stay on this site like it's reddits, visit daily etc. Nothing wrong with that, but I'm just saying these type of people probably are still neurotic about their height and won't admit it.
I'm NOT referring to people who come back like once or a few times a month to answer questions, these people just want to help, honestly. I'm also not referring to the mods, they are mods for a reason. I'm just talking about the select few who constantly have time to get into arguments on this forum on off topic or whatever, active daily. There are far and few, probably less than 3 LL vets off the top of my head on this entire forum who are still active that match my intended description. I'm not referring to you EZ, not even close.
Just my opinion, sorry if it was rude. You are doing God's work by even making a diary, and yes, no obligation to even do a diary at all. I agree BeYourBest is a little needy, no one needs to even post a picture let alone a video. We are privileged to even get a diary. I'm sure he intended well though.
Perhaps I am a jackass, obviously visiting the forum can just be for fun and entertainment. Personally, this forum is damaging to my mental health, so that's why I conflated this forum with negativity. It's an addiction that served almost no benefits after the first two months of research. It's like heroin, how I can't help but read hours and spend hours here. I can see how this forum can be a very good website just meant to help LL prospectors or current patients, if we take out the off topic discussions. It was small minded to associate my forums neurotic and mental anguish experience with the forum and apply the same logic to everyone who goes on this site. That is my fault. It is my bad, I'm sorry.