I think you're a great candidate for LL. You have your life in order, and you appear to be incredibly humble and able in your life. You set realistic options and goals, and are willing to not have a "do or die" mentality for height, which I think speaks alot about your character. I personally have only started considering LL 3 days ago, when I also discovered the new way they do things, internally with Stryde and all that good stuff.
The people who do well with LL it appears to me, are those that treat stretching and other physical therapy and all that good stuff like a religion. Surprisingly one LL person said that a good portion don't even stretch and are just so worn out and don't put in the work, understandably so however. I think the biggest risk is probably genetics, specifically your bone growth rate. Some people just don't seem to grow much bone, although it appears to be uniform for the vast majority of people. Stryde definitely is a game changer now, weight bearing after 3 weeks post op compared to weight bearing after 4 months post op is actually crazy. like ballerina foot and muscle degeneration can be heavily mitigated with walking early on during distraction. It's crazy how only 2 years ago, being completely disabled for at least 3 months was the norm for most LLers.
People who successfully do LL and are content are those who set reasonable expectations and simply do it to cure height neurosis. They don't expect to be improved in dating, attraction, nothing. They do it for THEMSELVES, to cure them of a body image disorder.
I read a post once that made an excellent analogy. Treat short stature like a face vitiligo person. The person whose face is discolored is normal, and they don't have any loss of functionality with their face, but the image is still there. Their face is disfigured and looks "ugly". When they go out, the first thing people notice about them, is their face. They definitely have good friends that don't give a about their vitiligo, but that's not the issue. They are completely fine, they can do everything normally, they are healthy. Is the vitiligo person fine? Yeah. Are they fine about their color patches? Probably hate it. If there was a surgery that could fix it completely, would they do it? Probably. But they are looking at themselves for being different, being not one skin tone, just like short people are not on the eye level of the average person, all these people view themselves as 'different'.
My point is that height is a neurosis. It's an insecurity that can lower someone's mood for almost no reason. They can't rationally cure it mentally. Yes they would be fine without fixing it. Yes they would still be a worthy normal human being even if they were a 5'2 male. Doing LL won't cure anything else but your body image disorder. You are doing it for YOURSELF. Not others. And I see no problem with wanting to fix a body image disorder. You go from different, to not-different.
If LL wasn't as barbaric as it is currently, breaking legs and stuff, it would be treated like any cosmetic procedure. Boob implants in America, double eyelid surgeries for asians, nose jobs for arabs in UAE, these are examples of cosmetic surgeries that are essentially destigmatized in their respective countries. No one deserves to live a life where THEY themselves don't feel comfortable being themselves. YOLO, so do your best to make sure you are happy in it.
LL is to fix a defect. A body image defect. This is the worse defect, a defect that you can feel everyday and you think about everyday, one where you feel the impacts stemming from YOUR OWN MIND 24/7. I have no respect for people who LL and were already average in their country pre LL, thinking they'll become a chad or whatnot after. I have respect for people who are somewhat on the lower end of underaverage, and do LL to become average, or just below. They want to be normal height. LL isn't to enhance your life, it's to repair a void and heal an mental injury.