For me it's pretty simple that if you think women are robots who are all programmed to like the same than something is wrong with how you understand women and maybe this is why you and your friends (usually friends think alike) have a lot of drawbacks at your height.
"sorry I date taller guys" is a common way for women (Never got that comment to be frank.. Just heard of it) to tell people they don't like for whatever reason that they don't like them. Usually it's also not the real reason because "sorry you are too short" sounds better (in their opinion) than "sorry but I don't date ugly".
Anyhow, your views on women are skewed and no one should take tips about women from you
Tibike I never disrespected you and I demand the same from you.
I say my opinion and what I see personally and in men I know and I speak as someone who was short and now average and in a few years, if things go well, taller than average.
The difference in how women treat me is big before and now. Almost all women I dated said that they would never be with a short man and many of them said that about my height is the border between dating a man or not.
This is my experience and most of men at my height and less agree with that but if someone less than 5.7 is very successful with women then good for him.
But I guess such a man wouldn't have been in a forum about the most hardcore cosmetic surgery out there.
So tell me Tibike, if you are completely ok with dating and you think that what I'm saying is false, why are you here and you don't live your successful life but you care about something extreme like LL?
I have done LL and I saw with my own eyes how important was the difference before and after and I saw also how important is height for a man, that's why I am so motivated about doing LL.
I have a very good face, a built body with 48cm arms, a bmw car and an average job but all these make me just average because of my mediocre height.
Guess what, if I was 5.11 or more I wouldn't have been an average man but better from at least 90% of men out there as I am better than average in anything else from a little to too much.
Still my height keeps me back and I know it. Things are much easier for a taller than average man, while short men struggle a lot, especially on dating.
So if you don't believe all these, why you care about LL? After all you are more than 5.7 which is not really short.
So you don't have any real reason to do LL from what you saying. Why are you here then?
People who don't believe that height is really significant for a man don't consider LL or they are stupid. So what is your motivation because from your words you are completely ok with your life.
As far as I know people who are ok in their lives don't want cosmetic surgeries, especially ones like LL which mean that you'll never be again as before doing it.
Height is the most important aspect in a man's appearance and the shorter you are from average the worse it becomes until you reach a border where under it you are just doomed. For me this border is 5.7, for others it is 5.6, 5.9 etc. But even that border for many women is unacceptable as they just want tall men only.
Anyone who is here and does not admit all the above is either a liar or lives in denial.