Thanks for sharing your honest experience, BB; it is refreshing to hear.
Further questions:
1. Do you ever pick up women in places where they don't wear heels, like the gym / tennis club / ski piste / running in the park? Assuming then that you are a good 4-5 inches taller than them (assuming equal footwear), are their responses better than when you are in the places where they wear heels? Also as in the gym they are more appreciative of your body they could overlook the height difference.
2. Do you do better when you are in a group of men of similar height (as in you look like the average guy)? or better when the average is less (ie you look taller than average)? I ask because I went to a salsa club for the first time last week with a date and I was surprised that I was one of the tallest guys there. I can't dance to save my life but I certainly felt that the women were more interested.
3. What is the ideal height for a woman for you? Has your perception of the ideal height of a woman changed after your LL?
Once again, just trying to confirm or refute some hypotheses. Respect to you my friend
@ krp1: nice to met you my friend.
@682: You are right. Many of the posts here should be moved to an other thread or something.
@ antonio: 1)on the gym it is much harder to pick up girls and also, I'm there for working out, not for picking girls. Also, the girls that are really worth are there to just work out and don't have the willing for social time with men most of the time.
So when I hit the gym I'm dedicated to do what I should with my body and I'm not in the mood for more things. And trust me, most of the real good looking girls think the same. They go to gym to improve themselves, not meeting men.
Also, I don't have many hobbies (ski, jogging etc) so I don't know if it would have been easier for me to flirt there.
The places I most of the times find women is clubs, bars and generally speaking places that people go out to meet other people. Of course there are many superficial women there but there are nice women too. And after all, superficial or not, they still want to meet men. And if you don't have any major drawback in your appearance (which is the most important on these places for both men and women) then you won't face any problem even with a little shallow women.
After all, its nice to have the choice to see if you want to do something with a (even shallow) girl or not rather than be rejected for something like height.
I don't look for these kinds of girls of course but I still don't want to think that I'm not good enough for many women due to my lack of more than average height, while on every other aspect I'm far from average.
2). Yes, while I'm with men at about my height or a little above (1 inch lets say) almost every time I'm the one who would find a new girl in a club. When I am with my tall friends I mentioned before, most of the times they find girls easier than me and women talk to them more than me.
And yes, the less the average men height in a club is, the easier it is for me to pick girls.
All these are a common experience for men who go out a lot and have an adventurous life style.
People who only find women via internet or have longtime relationships and don't go out to meet new girls can't understand what I'm talking about and how important is height for these situations.
3) I don't have an ideal height for women. The most compatible for my height would be a 5.4-5.6 girls but everything from 5.2 to 5.9 is good enough for me.
I tend to prefer girls 5.3-5.6 range but I really don't care.
On the other hand, a nice face, a slim body and a cute character are much more significant for me in a girl than height.