ah, when u get a chance 6feet, i also have a question about the psych eval.
were you supposed to put rozbruch's psychiatrist in contact with therapists you've worked with before? i ask because my mom, who was very much so against my getting the surgery for a while because of her motherly paranoia regarding the potential risks, was adamant about my seeing a bdd specialist. her idea was that if i had bdd and just treated it with cognitive behavioral therapy and SSRIs, i wouldn't be bothered by my height anymore, thus precluding the surgery.
bdd specialists are categorically against cosmetic surgeries like this. it's in their best interest career-wise, because someone could undergo a cosmetic surgery rather than working with a bdd theraprist. the one i worked with acknowledged that a select few people will benefit from these surgeries, but that in her experience the vast majority of people have something like bdd and will return for other cosmetic surgeries. anyway, as expected, the bdd treatment didn't work for me. i was open to it and approached it with real effort, but i have dysphoria, not dysmorphia. the woman i worked with was thoughtful and very nice, but she works within the bdd framework exclusively, which makes no room for someone like me who has sex partners, career prospects, a good life generally, but quite wants the surgery as long as it's safe and legit.
i have a regular therapist whom i have a great relationship with, and she agrees with me that i don't have bdd, and that lengthening isn't a bad idea as long as i know it's what i really want. my parents like her too, and that's largely why they've come around. she's a doctor, has done her research, and acknowledged that while it's not without risk, if you work with the right surgeon, you'll be good.
anyway, i'm sure rozbruch doesn't much like the bdd people either, as like i said, they categorically reject cosmetic surgeries like his. but the idea of having to get back in contact with thd bdd specialist i met with and her like thwarting my shot at surgery is a total bummer. so i wanted to check with you that you just see rozbruch's psychiatrist. i mean, before rozbruch's psychiatrist could talk to any of my former doctors, i'd have to give them explicit permission. but i'd rather not lie to rozbruch of course, or withhold info about me that he asks for, i want to be totally forthcoming with him.