I can attest, that most short men suffer from too short legs compared to their trunk (sadly, I'm an exception to this).
I think, for men, as long as they don't go above a 50% leg-to-height-ratio, nobody will notice.
Over the past year, I've seen plenty of naturally-grown leggy men who clearly were beyond the 50% mark (mostly tall people) or men who had arms like a T-Rex (all heights).
Their proportions were notably off, but nobody seemed to care. Not even their girlfriend or wife they had with them
It's just the short guys I never saw or met with a lady.
Women can even lengthen to more then 50%, in most cultures, it's even considered beautiful.
So, if your starting height is less than 165cm, height beats proportions any time.
And if you're taller, proportions still don't play that much of a role as long as you stay within reason and don't eff up your biomechanics.