Unicorn you say it's worth it because you are in a good situation in life and Guichet is going to solve your problem soon but I would like to ask you a question.
What would you say if you had lost your job because of this or your husband had left you or you lost all your savings and had to get a loan? Would you say it's worth it? I have some cases in mind. Emmanuel lost 4 years of his life as a cripple. He had to visit multiple doctors in Europe and spent all his savings. Musicmaker lost her job and she has been 2 years wheelchairbounded. She will probably have permanent sequels after many failed surgeries and even if her legs are longer now she has ugly scars (not worth it for a girl if you are average height like she was). Crimsontide's girlfriend cheated on him and made fun of him as a cripple and he is thinking about amputation nowadays because he can't stand his lack of function. This is depressing. Why are some people so mean? A guy from old board went to Russia. He was an engineer and lost everything after complications in his surgery. All these people have had lots of surgeries and they think LL is the worst decision they have taken in their life. I was discussing all these cases yesterday with some people in the forum and I would like to know your opinion.
I would like to have LL but I have a girlfriend, and a good job and good savings and I'm afraid of getting not fixable complications and loosing everything in life.
I think I laid it out pretty clearly in my first post... I'm in a good situation right now, to realize this dream. It means I didn't stumble onto the surgery by accident or thought that my life had no meaning if I stayed short.
The point is, I would not have done it if I couldn't stay within the comforts of my own home and encircled by my support system (ie. friends). And I would not have done it if it were not a reputable doctor, so I had only 2 I would have gone to, Paley or Guichet.
When I found out that Guichet began offering this surgery in London, I got interested. Of course, I would not have done it if I had a job and a boss breathing down my neck and I think this is everyone's predicament. I also would not have done it if I were in a relationship, married or had dependents whose lives would be affected should I never recover. Check.
So finally, it comes down to pricing and health. In that department too, this surgery is not going to break my bank and I would not have done it if I had to take a loan and be stressed out about mounting expenses and paying back. And I am extremely flexible being a gymnast before, so I got a clean bill of health from the doctor.
This is how I made the weighted decision to undergo this surgery and I do think about the worst case scenario. However, as it is right now, I can already walk without crutches with a 7cm shoe lift. So when I'm healthy enough to have surgery, I will cross that bridge and worry about it then.
In the meantime, I wake up every day not believing that I'm 5'6", my childhood dream. I look better in clothes, and yesterday, meeting another friend I had not seen since summer, he said I was looking hot because I slimmed down. Again, no freaking clue what I've been through
It does make me smile though because nobody imagines that I grew up over the last 3 months.
So, this is my thought process... if all those items above do not line up, I wouldn't have taken so much risk. And I beg anyone who's planning to undergo this procedure to prepare for the worst case scenario. I've seen relationships ruined, I've seen people losing their savings, lose their jobs because their bosses couldn't wait any longer, I've seen people who had difficulties adapting to temporary life in London, Milan or Marseilles, or have long lasting health complications and side effects. The point is... you need to go in PREPARED. And statistically speaking, Guichet operates on way more patients than those who post here, and like the 2 who just graduated from surgery to walking without crutches in 6 weeks... you won't hear a peep from them
Lastly, all of the people I've met who has done it with Guichet from June until today... 90% are level headed professionals (doctors, bankers, lawyers) who have done the necessary soul searching to undergo such a massive risk... and safe to say, none have gone on a limb to lengthen their limbs.