Ok guys, I was doing very well for months with height neurosis, than I was just in a situation with a girl I liked who went for a 6' 1" dude instead of me.
Neurosis overload trigger!!!
Anyway, I really hope it wasn't because be was taller, but I question stuff like this. Do you think in reality, most short or average height girls care that much about 5' 9" vs 6' 1"? Is this all a imaginary problem I've created in my head?
I should mention that every day when I walk down the vastly populated streets of New York City, I see a couple with a shorter man and taller woman, for whatever it's worth.
i never faced such situation, i'm studying in an engineering school so girls there might be a bit more intelligent and less superficial.
However, i must admit that i get " a kick in the chest" lol, each time i see a hottie with a very tall but not handsome guy (6'3 and +) .The guy might have plenty of other qualities, he might have a good carreer, but i find this to be more common than he should be, considering the fact that guys who are 6'3" represent 3 to 10 % of the males population.
Beyond that, i think there is a correlation between the height of the guy, and the beauty of the girl.I know what some of you are going to say "i'm 5'7" and girls i pulled were 10/10 blablabla" but this is just a trend i have noticed, it's not necessarily true, so don't be offended, this is not an exact science.