Calling something gay because you disagree with it is usually not a sign of maturity I do agree with you though that it is something cosmetic and not necessary.
Do you think pressing 70kg is a manly weight? I wouldn´t consider myself as buffed but even for me 70kg´s is that not much tough.
70kg and
UP... 70kg is just warmup
jk!
If it makes you feel better, I can use the word "effeminate" or "woman-like" instead of gay. I'm not sure when gay actually becomes a bad word. But honestly, it is what it is. People do LL either for therapeutic purposes because they feel discriminated against and less than average. Or they do it for cosmetic purposes for good-feeling or "domination feeling" - another meaning for vanity. Like I said, it can be very common in certain part of the world like Japan or Korea where men try to make themselves look beautiful but not so much where I live.
Oh I see. So you're a manly, honorable man, yet instead of bringing up your concerns to the appropriate parties to talk it out as men do, you have to take passive aggressive cheap shots in their general direction? For a male so concerned about how manly he is you should consider heeding your own advice.
Take note everyone else, this is about the umpteenth time the more vertical members of the forum have been terrorized by vindictive goons that lurk in the swamps.
Hey, I'm sorry that my comment offended you in any way. The fact that I didn't direct it to you means that I'm in no way interested in making fun of your desire to become taller. Even my earlier post, I have encouraged another member to go ahead with LL, despite being 6'0, if that makes him feel happier and that he would have no buyer remorse.
I've been around almost since this forum started. Many people have left but I'm sure that there may be one member or two who would heed my advice. I know. The majority of people only like to read what they want to hear. They like to read other comments which would support their own beliefs. If you're the type of person who thinks that LL is as easy as a walk in the park and only like to read the rosy and the majestic side of LL, then I think you may be a bit naive. You need to weigh the cost/benefit/risk. Moreover a natural 6'4 guy is not the same as a 6'4 guy who previously 6'1 who underwent LL to increase 3 inches.
We live in free countries. People can do as they want. No one will stop you from achieving your dream. But as good friends/samaritan, I like to point out something strange or bad to others when I spot them and I hope that others can do the same for me.
Also, my comment was in response to the suggestion of changing my face. With a few cosmetic surgeries (eyes, nose, mouth, legs) a man can inadvertently become a woman (eg. Michael Jackson). However, it's not common in my culture for a man to undergo cosmetic surgery to make himself beautiful. Sometime I feel like I'm doing someone a favour by pointing something not socially normal, but if you don't want to hear it, then fine. I'll stop. Cheers.
As for parent's height, I'm also shorter than my dad about an inch. A further desire for me to reach his expectation.