How'd y'all know I was early twenties? Does my profile say? Haha. And I'm doing this because I want to physically be able to handle tough, or strenuous environments. (I currently work in a back stock room with lots of heavy lifting and big boxes. I see how my height and arm reach makes things harder sometimes. Like those freakin super tall dumpsters.
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So it's more of a survival thing than acceptance from others. If I'm bigger, the less likely I'll be targeted as weak, the more I can physically handle, the more I can protect others. My dad is an inch shorter than me. He's a weak man...
From y'all's responses, I'd say your advice is be patient. Okay
I won't rush.
Edit: also I'm a nice guy. People sometimes take advantage of that and assume I'm weak, leaving me in quite an awkward situation. If I embody strength, then my mind should follow soon after, correct? Although, I've never really been targeted much before. Only if the person knows me and knows that I'm on the shorter side as well as nice is when they attempt to walk over me. Luckily, I've been told I'm on the "very attractive side (lol)" so I think that's saved my butt...like.. A lot... :/