It is interesting that you mentioned your mom crying. When they did the bone age and told me about it(he would not grow more he was 5.2''), I was so depressed and could not get out of the bed for several days. You guys are not defective, it is just mother's wish to have all the best for the kids. My son is so shy,he is good looking though. I can imagine if he was tall, would be so good.take care.