That is excellent advice about bettering oneself rather than do nothing else but bitch and complain about the opposite sex. If for whatever reason you are still unable to change things for the better, than all I can say is to do what I've done and to just accept your lot in life. It sucks I know but life hands us lemons sometimes. I willl explain this in further detail on what I mean, if I get a diary started. Anyway, to make things a bit easier you can always tell yourself that things could be oh so much worse, something I have to remind myself of daily. I guess the perfect examples for me, might be the women who must live in the selfish and uncilvilized dotoga society, or being born blind, no arms, no legs, horribly disfigured, no home, no car, no health. If you see things this way then you realize you have already won the lottery.
I have not read or googled the study but if the beatings of the women, and sex slave /cattle comparison is true then the dotoga culture would be very animalistic. A backwards society such as this would not give women a say in choosing their husband, let alone their husbands height. Not to mention that the family of the women would have to be equally twisted and involved to allow this to happen. One thing for sure is that a society where women have absolutely no voice would be no life worth living.
PS - I like the ForcedPuberty name because ain't it the darn truth.