Figured I would post here since some may be wondering about this. On the first of the month I consulted with Dr. Paley, the process was:
Schedule two weeks in advance/book flights and hotel.
Fly in a day early, arrive at the Paley institute to fill out paperwork
Go to St Marys for body scans(this took forever for them to get it positioned right, only for them to realize they were doing the wrong scan- Then they tried the right one and it overheated... Three hours later I was finally done)
Get to the hotel(brace yourself for incomprehensible taxi drivers and spending sixty bucks for any round trip) sleep, wake up early, taxi back to the institute
Paley and his assistant confirmed I should have no problem lengthening the maximum allowed by the precice, which would put me at 5 11. Said patients weren't allowed to lengthen at home, that insurance would cover no part of anything, that no patient had ever had complications requiring additional surgery with the exception of one who had nerve issues from not following protocol, and that I could expect to be normal within a year.
As for the man himself he was very likable, though like others have said he does state that you will be butchered anywhere but with him.
Have my surgery scheduled for the 22nd... 18 days from now! I'm not going there with anyone and know no one there. No one I know is aware of my plans, so any support here is more than welcome. Have a diary here you can follow as things develop. My days will be pretty much just PT, exercise(which I will force myself to do), and using my laptop so I should be able to keep it updated.