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toyz

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whom to tell about surgery
« on: November 05, 2022, 08:04:59 AM »

if doc tells that telling someone is compulsory whom to tell

1) parent
2) brother/sister
3) cousin
4) uncle/aunty

who will keep it secret4life and dont tell others??
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JJ299

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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #1 on: November 05, 2022, 08:28:27 AM »

if doc tells that telling someone is compulsory whom to tell

1) parent
2) brother/sister
3) cousin
4) uncle/aunty

who will keep it secret4life and dont tell others??

I feel this is different by person like your question is basically the equivalent of saying " What is your favorite food? ". Obviously you should tell the person that you trust the most and that you know will keep it a secret if it needs to be. For me I told my parents and gf but noone else since for me I am 100% sure my cousins will gossip a lot about it.
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #2 on: November 05, 2022, 10:14:42 AM »

I feel this is different by person like your question is basically the equivalent of saying " What is your favorite food? ". Obviously you should tell the person that you trust the most and that you know will keep it a secret if it needs to be. For me I told my parents and gf but noone else since for me I am 100% sure my cousins will gossip a lot about it.
How did your gf reacted? Mine thinks I am crazy but still supports me
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #3 on: November 05, 2022, 11:18:09 AM »

I'm not telling a single person. Too risky and even my family members love to gossip.
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2022, 12:10:53 PM »

I will be doing this in secrecy. lengthening 7-7.5cm at most.
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2022, 01:59:05 PM »

How much are you lengthening?  Think you can really keep it a secret?
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #6 on: November 05, 2022, 04:32:39 PM »

Thing is the doctor forces all his patients to inform some family member and get consent.

I am not sure whom to tell. I dont trust anyone to keep quite and not tell others.

is there a way to make a family member understand to not to tell anyone??
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2022, 06:10:55 PM »

Maybe hire someone to pretend to be your family member?  I'd imagine that the doc won't be running a background check.
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #8 on: November 05, 2022, 08:40:18 PM »

Find another doctor. It’s really none of his business.
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #9 on: November 05, 2022, 10:14:13 PM »

Im telling nobody but am almost certain I cannot gaslight my dad.  Hes extremely perceptive and I will go from being shorter than him to taller than him.  So that will be fun to deal with.  My mom and sister will have no idea theyre too short.
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #10 on: November 06, 2022, 06:39:42 AM »

I told everyone. Gossip about what? be the coolest person they know. Be confident guys!
You have the guts to spend this money and go through all this pain and scared to tell your friends and family? 😂😂
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #11 on: November 06, 2022, 08:54:58 AM »

Im telling nobody but am almost certain I cannot gaslight my dad.  Hes extremely perceptive and I will go from being shorter than him to taller than him.  So that will be fun to deal with.  My mom and sister will have no idea theyre too short.

start wearing big boots with lifts around your dad 24/7 to get him accustomed to at least a 2 inch height increase, he will start asking you in the beginning and then get used to it, then you can do the surgery

I told everyone. Gossip about what? be the coolest person they know. Be confident guys!
You have the guts to spend this money and go through all this pain and scared to tell your friends and family? 😂😂

you are a braver person than i am. im horrified by the thought of anyone finding out. i feel like it would be the death of my social life and id be forever ridiculed for this
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #12 on: November 06, 2022, 10:15:36 AM »

in my case people around me had
a). a minimum cosmetic intervention like nose job and they know the feeling of getting over an insecurity so they understood 100%
b). they had a minimum surgery that involved pain and they treat me good knowing how painful was for them , imagine how painful my surgery was.
c). friends and family who didn’t liked the idea but because they love me they accepted and been supportive (p.s. i told my family after the surgery to don’t keep them in stress during )
d). people who judged (oh, you did this for what? are you happy being disabled for so long now? you don’t look taller)

you say, yes . fk them.  people who will treat you bad are not your friends and you should take the opportunity to notice  and get them out of your life. people who love you will always be supportive.
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Re: whom to tell about surgery
« Reply #13 on: November 12, 2022, 11:40:42 PM »

Nobody. If I told someone I would make them sign a legal NDA
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