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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #186 on: March 04, 2022, 06:17:29 PM »

MOD, do you think this systematic posting is constructive, minimally racional and respectful for guys shorter than 170cm specially extremely short like me and for people suffering from the several diseases he constantly mentions SYSTEMATICALLY in the majority of topics over the whole forum?
Does this have place in the forum, does it help its purpose and users, does this add something to discussion or even is it a means of questioning and getting legitimate information?

I don't think it's constructive, rational, or respectful.  But I hope the conversation can move in that direction now that he's expressed his frustration and unhappiness.  I don't want to just give up on someone like that.
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #187 on: March 04, 2022, 07:49:41 PM »

First, a TikTok influencer is just a bunch of videos. Women don't necessarily realise that is he short, due to how the videos are produced.

Secondly, to answer someone's question, in Northern Europe 170cm is considered short, even 175cm potentially.
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #188 on: March 04, 2022, 08:47:02 PM »

I don't think it's constructive, rational, or respectful.  But I hope the conversation can move in that direction now that he's expressed his frustration and unhappiness.  I don't want to just give up on someone like that.
@MDOW He is literally posting that everyday since so LONG; does his sick ,stupid and distort opinion has to be displayed EVERY DAY and do we have to deal with his insanity EVERY TIME a thread is opened ?
He clearly won't do s*it neither option 5 ,2 ,1 or any lengthening because he is a psychopath person with many disorders that it's not capable to put the trash out of his house,  if asked to do so .
He makes accounts and changes names every other day and keeps saying disrespectful things about life n towards (indirectly) users below 170cm , as zaozari said .
Personal Freedom ends when u invade the freedom of others and he crossed that line long ago .
He is humanly impossible to deal with because he has real issues , it's not a way to offend him but he has mental issues and it's clear.
 
What other treats does someone has to have to be banned here ?!
Kill someone and post the pictures of the murder ?
I don't get it !
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #189 on: March 04, 2022, 10:26:16 PM »

First, a TikTok influencer is just a bunch of videos. Women don't necessarily realise that is he short, due to how the videos are produced.

Secondly, to answer someone's question, in Northern Europe 170cm is considered short, even 175cm potentially.


I respectfully disagree. They do know he is short. He openly says in his video that he is 5 ft 6.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSeEeFS8L/

And in most of his videos showing full body you can tell he does look 5 ft 6ish.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSeEeY1g4/

His looks and body make up for his lack of tall height. 5ft 6 is no way near the standard 6ft requirement for women. If he was normal looking and skinny/fat, women would avoid him and then mention that he is short as.

Zac efron is around same height of 5 ft7. Countless women swoon over him. Even when he did baywatch movie where he was casted next to dwayne Johnson( over 6ft 2).


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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #190 on: March 05, 2022, 06:46:11 AM »

The Ebola patient will be lying in a bed, only a few inches tall.  The quadriplegic would be in a wheelchair, only a few feet tall.  Their "natural" heights don't give them height.  Please explain why you'd want to be so much shorter than the 170 cm guy.
At least I am not 'short', literally. But anyway thx for your sympathy man!
I am just all the time expressing how horrendous the detriments of my height are bringing to me instead of deliberately spreading mental harms from myself onto others but they are just misunderatanding me holding intentions to insult or whatever they have said to me before. All in all no offenses.
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #191 on: March 05, 2022, 05:35:21 PM »

Actually, they are shorter literally than you.  That extra curled-up length they have in their cripple chairs and their death beds doesn't do them any good.  Their heads are much lower than every short person except dwarves.

Next time you go to the bathroom and take a   all by yourself, think about the fact that this "dream" of yours to be a dying cripple would mean you couldn't even do that.
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #192 on: March 05, 2022, 07:50:42 PM »

Actually, they are shorter literally than you.  That extra curled-up length they have in their cripple chairs and their death beds doesn't do them any good.  Their heads are much lower than every short person except dwarves.

Next time you go to the bathroom and take a   all by yourself, think about the fact that this "dream" of yours to be a dying cripple would mean you couldn't even do that.
Thx. But I gotta make a head-up:I am really working out on my journey to doing Option 5.
So dunno how Masteryourlife's opinion that I won't do anything like Option 5 was formed in his mind and as long as he checked my posts, he could've for sure learned that I would kill for Option 5 and inquire as many details as possible about Option 5, like how to apply Visas for going to Paley's, about which I threw the question in my post Meetup & Travel.
Do you also think I am just talking about stratagems on posts? Actually no. For once I even dreamed of doing LL surgery lying on a operating table where I was glanced at by several medical personnels and the dream ended up with my legs wrapped by the external fixators.
I was also sparing nearly all of my private time on searching data about height or height-related stuffs and through that I knew 178cm is a good height among China's Genzs although stloads of Genzs are inflating the average height like 180-185 is average height in 12 y.o cohort. So I think that can shed a little light on how obsessed I am with my height and how painful I am feeling about my height.
So I am not just a spoiler hanging around this forum. So his conclusion 'I am throwing toxic opinions in EVERY post' is totally stretching the reality, at least recently you can also see me post other kinds of posts like answering two OP's questions, one of which, I can recall, questioned about why he got height shrinkage after finishing external LL.
I don't dare say I am a master at LL knowledges. But I can say I am already expertise at the 'sketch' of LL, at least before it several Chineses questioned my about LL and I answered very patiently and precisely.
So I really dunno why those two guys who are thinking I am on purpose putting fire to their emotions concluded I just seem to be making sequent jokes on this forum.(If I am also misunderstanding then I am sorry)
Plus, I am also working out on other aspects of my life, like just now I was occupied in preparing for Kaoyan(aka Postgraduate Entrance Examination) practicing College Mathmatics problem solving and reading Data Structure textbook to increase my level of education.
To recap, I am just addressing my view of how emuscalating being short for a man is and still, never attempting to offend anyone.
(BTW, if you can spare time to evaluate my English proficiency, although I know it can only make few senses since you are not an English teacher in China or whatnot but you are a native speaker so in light of it I will also take your evaluations into my considerations plz try to do an amateur evaluation and plz take it srsly don't overrate it just not to hurt my feelings. I gotta know the real situation. It will be a foresight of my scores of Kaoyan's English examination. Thx!)
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #193 on: March 05, 2022, 09:06:05 PM »

Thx. But I gotta make a head-up:I am really working out on my journey to doing Option 5.
So dunno how Masteryourlife's opinion that I won't do anything like Option 5 was formed in his mind and as long as he checked my posts, he could've for sure learned that I would kill for Option 5 and inquire as many details as possible about Option 5, like how to apply Visas for going to Paley's, about which I threw the question in my post Meetup & Travel.
Do you also think I am just talking about stratagems on posts? Actually no. For once I even dreamed of doing LL surgery lying on a operating table where I was glanced at by several medical personnels and the dream ended up with my legs wrapped by the external fixators.
I was also sparing nearly all of my private time on searching data about height or height-related stuffs and through that I knew 178cm is a good height among China's Genzs although stloads of Genzs are inflating the average height like 180-185 is average height in 12 y.o cohort. So I think that can shed a little light on how obsessed I am with my height and how painful I am feeling about my height.
So I am not just a spoiler hanging around this forum. So his conclusion 'I am throwing toxic opinions in EVERY post' is totally stretching the reality, at least recently you can also see me post other kinds of posts like answering two OP's questions, one of which, I can recall, questioned about why he got height shrinkage after finishing external LL.
I don't dare say I am a master at LL knowledges. But I can say I am already expertise at the 'sketch' of LL, at least before it several Chineses questioned my about LL and I answered very patiently and precisely.
So I really dunno why those two guys who are thinking I am on purpose putting fire to their emotions concluded I just seem to be making sequent jokes on this forum.(If I am also misunderstanding then I am sorry)
Plus, I am also working out on other aspects of my life, like just now I was occupied in preparing for Kaoyan(aka Postgraduate Entrance Examination) practicing College Mathmatics problem solving and reading Data Structure textbook to increase my level of education.
To recap, I am just addressing my view of how emuscalating being short for a man is and still, never attempting to offend anyone.
(BTW, if you can spare time to evaluate my English proficiency, although I know it can only make few senses since you are not an English teacher in China or whatnot but you are a native speaker so in light of it I will also take your evaluations into my considerations plz try to do an amateur evaluation and plz take it srsly don't overrate it just not to hurt my feelings. I gotta know the real situation. It will be a foresight of my scores of Kaoyan's English examination. Thx!)
You have no clue what life at 175 cm is (for example)! 
You don't have an opinion; you are obsessed with things that does not even come from you but from a sick story ( n not even real) of the genZ being 185 cm etc.
Life can be super awesome at 5'8 n 5'9 but the fact that "option 5 or nothing" triggers me a lot because you are arrogant !
I'm a "former" model and live close to people that have the highest standards in the world n height is the only thing I lack in and that evolved trough years .
So you can't say " you are 5'9 willing to do this so u arrogant too" .
It might seems like for me it is a "if it happens it happens if not ,fine" but it is not like that ; I lost the best years of my life n still doing it by feeling angry n frustrated ; the pressure is huge and most of us here thought about death at least once in order to undergo LL surgery with such a conviction ..because among here there is the conviction that this surgery is tough  but doable when in the real world , no one would be down to do that even if they got millions of dollars, and that gives an idea of what we are down too.
So you are not the only one suffering and being shorter then me or taller then someone else does not make your pain more intense ; its all relative to your reality and I live hand by hand with the most beautiful poeple in the world so  the pressure I have its huge and the fact that everything it's potentially at my reach , but 2 inches sets me apart , cuts me inside everytime I think about it .
This does not apply to everyone tho!!!

I learned to live with it until I do this surgery and NO ONE will pay for it but me  because my parents understood but never agreed so they will support me emotionally  if I do it ,but they still try heavily to make me rethink meanwhile and will not sponsor me it in any way .
I don't come here to post how many nights I cried and went out for walks around the city at 5 am crying non stop or not sleeping for days in a row because we all went trough tough times ..very very very tough times and that is why we are here. 
Your way of expressing your emotions and ur situations its obsessive,irrational,immature and disrespectful because I do understand you , but you are not the only one suffering and you compare height to diseases that kill people n destroy families ..and you compare that to some inches ;they would give you all the height and be 3 ft to only be healthy !
Express your emotions without being pathetic n irrational !
You trigger people because everytime we get on we find your crazy posts and its hard to ignore you because you are everywhere and you seems to not want to respect others that tell you to stop !
There is no persoal hate ,you are just very very annoying n immature !
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #194 on: March 05, 2022, 10:34:23 PM »

What is option 5?
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #195 on: March 05, 2022, 11:57:19 PM »

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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #196 on: March 06, 2022, 03:43:35 AM »

people that have the highest standards in the world n height is the only thing I lack in and that evolved trough years
Los Angeles?

Personally I was 173 pre surgery and slept with dozens of women, so yes it's possible if you have other things going for you, but if I had been 185 it would have been much easier.

Every little helps. There's no point telling someone who dislike their height that "some short people are doing great"
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #197 on: March 06, 2022, 06:57:04 AM »

Los Angeles?

Personally I was 173 pre surgery and slept with dozens of women, so yes it's possible if you have other things going for you, but if I had been 185 it would have been much easier.

Every little helps. There's no point telling someone who dislike their height that "some short people are doing great"

Yea it does make it easier.

But if a guy lacks greatly in other areas, 8 cm height won't do that much. They'd be surprised after LL their success with women is still bad.

My take is, fix your face too, get fit. Then do LL as bonus.
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #198 on: March 06, 2022, 07:15:53 AM »

Los Angeles?

Personally I was 173 pre surgery and slept with dozens of women, so yes it's possible if you have other things going for you, but if I had been 185 it would have been much easier.

Every little helps. There's no point telling someone who dislike their height that "some short people are doing great"

Some feel that 173 is still considered average height for American. 173 is a decent height. Tom Cruise is around that height. Justin Bieber also
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #199 on: March 06, 2022, 09:10:56 AM »

Los Angeles?

Personally I was 173 pre surgery and slept with dozens of women, so yes it's possible if you have other things going for you, but if I had been 185 it would have been much easier.

Every little helps. There's no point telling someone who dislike their height that "some short people are doing great"
You haven't followed the posts prior to this !
I did not say short people are doing great , this is what you read in my message ; I said that if you are 165 and then you jump to 5'8 /5'9 your life would increase and there is nothing wrong with this height and I say that coming from 5'9 .
I talked about my job because the context makes a big difference and that is why I'm not happy with 5'9 ( and few other reasons but same kind of topic) .
Other then that with my look n height I can get ANYTHING I want , this all for me its  just personal .
Someone around 165 cm saying 180+ or nothing irs ridiculous!

That was my point n u jumped into the convo just rn but this stuff has been going on for days and weeks where this guy wants to be 180+ and doing 2 rebreakes and quadrilateral etc . (At least he acts like so ....)
 
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #200 on: March 06, 2022, 12:45:12 PM »

Yo just stfu. Being tall helps in dating significantly and that’s a fact.
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« Reply #201 on: March 06, 2022, 01:06:33 PM »

Yo just stfu. Being tall helps in dating significantly and that’s a fact.
Agree. Being short also means to me that I am suffering from a more terrifying disease than Leukemia and Ebola.
Doing LL means achieving chemical therapy or whatnot.
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« Reply #202 on: March 06, 2022, 02:23:08 PM »

You have no clue what life at 175 cm is (for example)! 
You don't have an opinion; you are obsessed with things that does not even come from you but from a sick story ( n not even real) of the genZ being 185 cm etc.
Life can be super awesome at 5'8 n 5'9 but the fact that "option 5 or nothing" triggers me a lot because you are arrogant !
I'm a "former" model and live close to people that have the highest standards in the world n height is the only thing I lack in and that evolved trough years .
So you can't say " you are 5'9 willing to do this so u arrogant too" .
It might seems like for me it is a "if it happens it happens if not ,fine" but it is not like that ; I lost the best years of my life n still doing it by feeling angry n frustrated ; the pressure is huge and most of us here thought about death at least once in order to undergo LL surgery with such a conviction ..because among here there is the conviction that this surgery is tough  but doable when in the real world , no one would be down to do that even if they got millions of dollars, and that gives an idea of what we are down too.
So you are not the only one suffering and being shorter then me or taller then someone else does not make your pain more intense ; its all relative to your reality and I live hand by hand with the most beautiful poeple in the world so  the pressure I have its huge and the fact that everything it's potentially at my reach , but 2 inches sets me apart , cuts me inside everytime I think about it .
This does not apply to everyone tho!!!

I learned to live with it until I do this surgery and NO ONE will pay for it but me  because my parents understood but never agreed so they will support me emotionally  if I do it ,but they still try heavily to make me rethink meanwhile and will not sponsor me it in any way .
I don't come here to post how many nights I cried and went out for walks around the city at 5 am crying non stop or not sleeping for days in a row because we all went trough tough times ..very very very tough times and that is why we are here. 
Your way of expressing your emotions and ur situations its obsessive,irrational,immature and disrespectful because I do understand you , but you are not the only one suffering and you compare height to diseases that kill people n destroy families ..and you compare that to some inches ;they would give you all the height and be 3 ft to only be healthy !
Express your emotions without being pathetic n irrational !
You trigger people because everytime we get on we find your crazy posts and its hard to ignore you because you are everywhere and you seems to not want to respect others that tell you to stop !
There is no persoal hate ,you are just very very annoying n immature !
In my eyes I really can't understand how your despairs and agnoies generated cuz 175 to me is really a decent height at least there will be no discriminations irl and nothing that can deter you from dating unless you wanna tap with so-called toxic girls who are killing for 180-185+ boys. No wonder you are irrigated towards my ventations but I understand how this kind of conflicts between an around 162cm(equivalent to having Ebola) and a 175cm male tend to be stirred up like for example a 175cm man is suffering from height dysphoria due to speical life experiences where he was faced with a height threshold but that is just 180cm which means even in the Netherlands/Balkan Peninsula nearly 30% of adult males can't meet up this kind of thresholds but when you are only around 162cm you will learn a lesson about what is actual so-called 'Rather die than living life' and even compared to Ebola and Osteocarcinoma they are just a breeze to standing at this kind of height.
All in all I can say if God gave you 2 'buttons' as your life:
1:150-158cm but with a healthy body.
2:188-190cm with Leukemia right after birth and hitting old ages with Alzheimer.
What is your choice gonna be?
I will not hesitate to choose the second button.
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #203 on: March 06, 2022, 02:31:09 PM »

What is option 5?
Paley maps out 5 lengthening options for you to achieve your goal.
As for Option 5, you can achieve 16cm in total but that is the most expensive Option cuz it needs you to do quadrilateral lengthening for 2 times one yr apart.
But in my perspective Option 5 is like chemical therapy to Leukemia patients.
As long as you gain 16cm through it, your 'Leukemia' is cured successfully.
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« Reply #204 on: March 07, 2022, 05:32:02 PM »

Paley maps out 5 lengthening options for you to achieve your goal.
As for Option 5, you can achieve 16cm in total but that is the most expensive Option cuz it needs you to do quadrilateral lengthening for 2 times one yr apart.
But in my perspective Option 5 is like chemical therapy to Leukemia patients.
As long as you gain 16cm through it, your 'Leukemia' is cured successfully.
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Re: Dating Life Improved After New Height?
« Reply #205 on: March 07, 2022, 09:11:05 PM »

In my eyes I really can't understand how your despairs and agnoies generated cuz 175 to me is really a decent height at least there will be no discriminations irl and nothing that can deter you from dating unless you wanna tap with so-called toxic girls who are killing for 180-185+ boys. No wonder you are irrigated towards my ventations but I understand how this kind of conflicts between an around 162cm(equivalent to having Ebola) and a 175cm male tend to be stirred up like for example a 175cm man is suffering from height dysphoria due to speical life experiences where he was faced with a height threshold but that is just 180cm which means even in the Netherlands/Balkan Peninsula nearly 30% of adult males can't meet up this kind of thresholds but when you are only around 162cm you will learn a lesson about what is actual so-called 'Rather die than living life' and even compared to Ebola and Osteocarcinoma they are just a breeze to standing at this kind of height.
All in all I can say if God gave you 2 'buttons' as your life:
1:150-158cm but with a healthy body.
2:188-190cm with Leukemia right after birth and hitting old ages with Alzheimer.
What is your choice gonna be?
I will not hesitate to choose the second button.

"Ebola and osteocarcinoma are a breeze (...)" . There's neither LL nor any shrink that can cure you. You sound as if all of your head is a carcinoma. It's rare to found such an ignorant *ss hole pathetic as you.
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