I've been wearing lifts since 2010 and over the years my arsenal has became more sophisticated.
However, deep in my heart I always feel that something is wrong. I can cheat others but I can't cheat myself. When people admire my looks or girls in the club like me, I know that they admire and like this fake version of myself, the person I am pretending to be, that doesn't really exist. And that they wouldn't feel the same towards me without the lifts.
Sometimes I wonder if it's wiser to just wear regular Timberland shoes.
It'd still give 1" but we would feel like we are being ourselves.
And I always had this nightmare about 5'8-5'10" girls who would be the same height as me with lifts to 2" taller and 2"-4" taller without. Sooner or later, the time will come and I won't know what to do.
Oh man, I'm beat.