As Dr. Pelly said: you can always send a Patient to see a therapist, but this will not cure the height dysphoria, undergoing the surgery only way that can do ( especially if you are short in your society ).
Do it for your own, you can be a success in life without being tall, and being tall or over average is only one factor in the dating market ( of course it is very important factor ) but it is not a green card to the women hart, I recommended you to read the books (1) double your dating by David DeAngelo (2) attraction is not a choice that book is good to read, but Do Not take David very seriously.