Hello, I've posted here before but I'm here again anxious about my height and thinking more about this surgery.
I'm 170 cm, 16 years old and before I say anything, I've been heavily drinking and smoking since the age of 15 where I've only grown about 2-3 cm since then. My dad is about 180 cm, my mum is about 160,
My arm length (from around the top of shoulder to my middle finger) 30 inches of 76 cm. My sitting height is about 90.5 cm.
I compared my arm length to my 5'9 friend and we have about the same, my arm length looks about the same as his when I'm on tip toes making myself 176cm (1 cm taller) - and his arms look pretty long and lanky but somehow I have 'longer arms' than him or the same.
Anyways, but when I compare with my 6'2 friend, his arm length is ridiculously long, he's lanky and when I'm on tip toes standing at about 176 cm (without shoes), his arm length is a little longer than mine. He has really big hands too.
Is comparing my arm length with someone 6'2 always gonna make me look like I have short arms and does he just have really long arms?
If my goal height is 180 cm and my arm length is 76 cm is that nothing to worry about, or will I be a t-rex?
I don't consider doing this surgery until the age of 18, but if by then my height and arm length hasn't changed, will a +10 cm increase look okay if I have 76 cm long arms and a sitting height of 90.5 cm?
Also, what are the chances that anyone without knowledge of LL notice I did this surgery? Will I look somewhat proportional to someone of the same height as me when I increase to theirs? For e.g. If I have a friend of 180cm height and I get LL to 180cm, will I look normal? Or should arm lengthening be considered as well?
Because today I was comparing my sitting height to a friend that is 2 cm taller than me, and I'm at least 5 cm taller than him while sitting down, meaning I have a pretty large torso compare to an average person of my height.
Is there a way that I can also remove the scars from LL or if I consider doing arm lengthening, is it also removable? I have no problem with having less sports ability even though I'm really good at it, right now what is killing me is being short. I know I'm not 'really short' but my height is a problem for me, I feel as if I need to make-up for being short, for e.g be attractive and be funny, whilst my taller friends just seem to be more 'masculine'.
Most of my friends are taller than me and even some younger kids are taller than me. I also seem to have a short wingspan but long arm length, how is that possible? Anyways, if anyone has time, please read my questions and answer :3, thank you for your time!
Also, I was on roller skates and I am about 180 cm on them, I seem to look very 'suitable' with that height my mum has said, I've even compared myself with her in the mirror and she says I look proportional and no one is going to be checking for your arm length unless they're as "crazy as you when it comes to proportions".