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InCollege

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Telling Your Family About LL
« on: October 16, 2015, 03:48:07 AM »

Has anyone had trouble when they told their family about their desire for LL?  This is something I'm worried about.  I'm only a freshman in college right now so it will be a few years at least before I can undergo LL.  However, I don't think my family will take my desire for LL well.  And I think I need to tell them in case anything happens to me during LL.

What makes me think my family will have a problem with LL is that they are all shorter than me.   My mom is 5' barely.  My dad is 5'5".  I have two older brothers that are both 5'6".  I'm 5'11" and I want at least 2 inches from LL.  There is also history that might make them not like LL.  I was really short as a child.  When I was 11 I was only 4 feet tall.  A doctor recommended I be put on growth hormone.  It worked.  By the time I was 14 and off the growth hormone, I was 5'.  Between then and now I grew to my current height of 5'11".  I know that my brothers, and even my parents to a certain extent are envious of my height.  My brothers never got put on growth hormone because they weren't as short as I was when I was younger.  They think they would have been taller if they had been put on growth hormone.

Compared to my family, I am really tall.  Thus, I'm worried that saying I want LL could be interpreted as me shoving my height in their faces because it's like I'm trying to go from tall to taller.  Does anyone have and advice on how I can tell my family about my desire for LL?  Thanks.
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #1 on: October 16, 2015, 04:09:22 AM »

Well first ask yourself why do you want to be taller then what you already are. What sort of pain are you in for you to want to do this that is holding you back in life. I'm not judging, but if you can't articulate a good valid reason as to why you'd want to be taller then I know your family would not approve of your decision. It will seem like a more selfish attempt then say if your brothers would want it.

I can go on and help you here but you have to really articulate to me/us as to why you want to be taller. We are all crazy to some degree, but we have to prove that amidst our craziness that there is a good reason for undergoing LL.

Also I must ask about your hormone treatment: how much did it cost for you to undergo the treatment to begin with, and how was it they identified you had HGH deficiency?
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #2 on: October 16, 2015, 04:35:48 AM »

troll?
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #3 on: October 16, 2015, 04:39:23 AM »

I don't know about the costs of the growth hormone treatments.  I assume insurance covered a lot of it.  I'm not sure exactly how they determined I had a growth hormone deficiency.  It started with the fact that I wasn't growing much for a long while and was a lot shorter than I should be even given my parents' heights.  My doctor had my parents take me to a specialist.  A bunch of tests were done to rule out any other possibility than a hormone deficiency.  If you want more details, I could ask my parents.  I was a kid at the time after all.

There are several reasons I want to be taller, at least some of which I wouldn't talk about with my family.  For example, I'm attracted to tall women, and I think being taller would allow me to attract tall women more easily.  That is by far not the only reason.  Another reason is that the 6 foot mark seems to be the mark that says a man is tall.  Tall people make more money.  Also, for many years I have wanted to be really tall.  I was bullied a lot when I was a short kid, and that just increased my desire to be tall.  At the time the bullies just seemed so tall.  Even though I have grown, my desire to be tall has not subsided.  I know that I have outgrown several of the people who bullied me for being small, but I would like to be even more taller than them.  I also have a lot of friends who are taller than 6', and I would like to their height or closer to their height.
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2015, 04:44:58 AM »

troll?

I was going to tear you a new one, but then I thought about this from the perspective of many people here.  A person doesn't have to be "short" to want to be taller.  I have many memories of being incredibly short so I get it.  Just because I got lucky doesn't mean I don't get it.
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #5 on: October 16, 2015, 05:07:55 AM »

Considering your families' perspective on this I don't think that would fly as much with them. I just don't know how I'd approach this since you're already taller, and they already made you taller. My best advice is that you sound reasonable about this, which is extremely hard to do to begin with with this cosmetic surgery. All I can say is be calm and show insight when talking to them about it. They, like I, are probably gonna recommend you see a psychologist about your problems since part of it stems from you being bullied in the past: understandable. The main reason is that really (if you are in the U.S) you are already above average and wouldn't face any sort of problems from women or men for that matter; and really taking note from Thatdude950, at your height the benefits of LL aren't as worth it. 

Now, another thing to consider is that you're still young so maybe you might grow an inch or two on the spine (or not I'm just spit balling here) or you might get over it by the time you finish college.

All in all I don't quite recommend you talk to them about it yet until you know who's gonna finance it and whether you are REALLY interested in it.
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2015, 05:18:02 AM »

I am in the US if that makes a difference.

There's no way I could do LL before I'm finished with college.  I have no idea yet how I would finance LL.  I wouldn't bring this up with my family until then.  And maybe you're right, either I might not care once I finish college or I might grow a bit.  If it's the latter, I'm sure it will drive my older brothers nuts.
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #7 on: October 16, 2015, 07:15:52 AM »

I don't think your family will allow LL. But you could go about telling them it's not a life threatening surgery, and tons of people do it. You'll need to sugarcoat it a little.

Out of curiosity, why do you want it so bad? I would imagine someone that was 4 and 5 feet tall would kiss the ground with joy at being 5'11, instead you feel deprived or height.
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #8 on: October 16, 2015, 08:07:41 AM »

Lol man I'm taller than you and I don't feel guilty
My surgery has been planned for next year, in 2016 I will be 188 cm popopo
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #9 on: October 16, 2015, 08:16:37 AM »

The taller you are , the more confident you feel, the feeling of being taller than someone is absolutely delicious, you feel alpha, superior.
Those extra inches are worth it
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #10 on: October 16, 2015, 09:36:12 AM »

The taller you are , the more confident you feel, the feeling of being taller than someone is absolutely delicious, you feel alpha, superior.
Those extra inches are worth it

Tall guy doing LL to feel superior to those shorter than him...

When I read this I realized why some doctors put a height limit on LL.
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Re: Telling Your Family About LL
« Reply #11 on: October 16, 2015, 09:40:12 AM »

The taller you are , the more confident you feel, the feeling of being taller than someone is absolutely delicious, you feel alpha, superior.
Those extra inches are worth it

You are most likely wrong objectively but whatever makes you feel better I guess.
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