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rock112

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Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« on: June 05, 2015, 06:38:00 PM »

The reason I plan on doing LL is because I don't think I've ever grown. I'm 18 now and 5'3.

I remember being in 6th grade and being measured at 4'11. I remember being in 7th grade and being measured at 5'1 and then 8th grade at 5'2, freshman year 5'3,  and that was it. But I hardly even remember growing then.

It's been awkward ever since then, every time I see extended family or friends from a long time ago. They're all expecting me to be much taller but I still look like I did when I was 13 lol. Meanwhile my friends have all outgrown me from me being on par with them at 5'2-5'3 in 8th
grade to them being 5'8-6' now.

I just can't believe it, I always thought I'd have my growth spurt at age 14-15 where boys grow 3+ inches per year and it never happened. I didn't get facial hair until I was 15, so I was excited. I spent such a long time waiting, always checking my height and measuring nyself and trying to come up with some evidence of growth sigh but I've always been fooling myself and I really have not grown AT ALL. Unless of course my big growth spurt was from 4'11 at age 12 to 5'2 at 14, then wtf is that?

I just feel like I've been cheated. I'm not taller than my dad, my parents are 5'6 and mom is 5'1. I should have at least been 5'4, 5'5 but nope 5'3. I think I got some genes from my grandpa who is fking like 4'11 or 4'10 because when you put it into perspective with him I look like I had a normal growth spurt when I see my friends and their grandparents. Except they're like 5-5 5'6 and they are all 5'10+.
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theuprising

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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2015, 09:29:30 PM »

Being a 5'3 man would be pretty tough. Although both your parents are very short and you are in the predicted mid parental height range so it looks like your growth was normal. Have you checked that your growth plates are fused?
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #2 on: June 05, 2015, 10:20:49 PM »

5'3 can be just a little below average, depending on where you live. It's all genes, though. You probably inherited the genes for closing your growth plates sooner. Don't worry too much about what could have been. Just decide right now whether you wanna do LL or not and then plan accordingly. Simple as that, really.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #3 on: June 06, 2015, 12:28:12 AM »

Not me man, both my parents are taller than me. Fathers just under 6". i always thought my long arms meant something happened to not let me grow more when I was younger
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #4 on: June 06, 2015, 06:53:54 AM »

That's exactly how I feel mate, even though I grew till 18. My height fits in better with 16 year olds than full grown adults, feels like I lost out on that last spurt which should have given me 7-10CM.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #5 on: June 06, 2015, 07:26:09 AM »

Exactly. I mean I had the worst nutrition (parental negligence) from 9 to 17 so idk. But it's strange to have a wingspan 10cm more your height so that's what I always thought anyways. I'm 163cm by the way
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #6 on: June 06, 2015, 08:46:21 AM »

The only times I felt less than an adult were times when authority figures would put me down or speak to me very condescendingly. It seemed like I got the worst of the bad attitude from teachers and coaches in school because I was shorter and they felt more at ease with putting me down. I had friends on the football team freshman year of high school who still tell me now that they can't believe how badly I was treated by the coaching staff. I was benching 275 lbs at a body weight of 160 yet I was put on the sidelines in every single game because I was 5'4 at the time. Eventually I stopped showing up to practice until my dad found out and made me suit up and apologize to the coach and ask to be put on the team again.

Funny thing though, it didn't end well because after I apologized the coach immediately said "You think you deserve to play during games?" and I responded "Yeah because I show up to every practice and I'm stronger than most of the guys on this team", to which he replied "Well you can suit up and stay on the sidelines again but you're not playing at all." I lost it and shouted "Just because you're a fat f***ing d***head it's not my problem!" Everyone was laughing at the coach and I got suspended after he escorted me to the Vice Principal, but people still remember it to this day. Totally worth it :)
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2015, 12:47:31 PM »

fk that coach
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #8 on: June 18, 2015, 03:54:05 PM »

I stopped growing at 14 so yes I feel very stunted. Other than keeping my growth plates open via hormones, I dont think there was anything I could have done(And how was I supposed to get hormonal drugs at 13?)
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #9 on: July 21, 2015, 01:02:31 PM »

I am 5 feet 5 inch and i am 23 now and i feel like this is not enough but i can not do anything about it. If there is anything which can help me please share it.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #10 on: July 25, 2015, 05:20:49 AM »

Yes, I feel that I fked my full potential for growth.Doctor said I'd be around 5'9 as an adult when I was a kid but of course like an idiot I had to start weight lifting at 13 years old and I mean heavy lifting (always thought that stunted growth due to weight training was a myth!) So yeah, I know that I didn't reach my proper height    >:(
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #11 on: July 25, 2015, 08:31:10 AM »

Yes, I feel that I fked my full potential for growth.Doctor said I'd be around 5'9 as an adult when I was a kid but of course like an idiot I had to start weight lifting at 13 years old and I mean heavy lifting (always thought that stunted growth due to weight training was a myth!) So yeah, I know that I didn't reach my proper height    >:(

There are no studies that back up the myth that weight training stunts growth. I've spoken to a number of doctors about it and they all said it has no effect, with the exception of one who said it may allow you to grow taller since weight lifting has a positive effect on bone density. The only way you can negatively affect your growth through weight lifting is if you fracture an epiphyseal plate during an exercise.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #12 on: July 25, 2015, 09:17:13 AM »

Sometimes it's just not very acurate, I got it measured when I was a kid and the result I got was 6-1-6'2. At the age of 16 I got it measured again and the Dr. told me that I already reached my final height, I only did moderate training and had a decent diet. Perhaps my sleep was not enough but I'm sure this can't have been the reason.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #13 on: August 01, 2015, 12:27:16 PM »

I can relate to these feelz.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #14 on: August 01, 2015, 12:52:25 PM »

I feel like this somewhat now, but during puberty I was an early bloomer, already had a deep voice at 13 and was 5'9 in height without shoes, it seems as if my shoulders didn't follow though, they're not small just not as big as I would like them to be which makes me mad sometimes because my dad is 5'9 with broad shoulders.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #15 on: August 05, 2015, 08:39:50 AM »

Yes, I feel that I fked my full potential for growth.Doctor said I'd be around 5'9 as an adult when I was a kid but of course like an idiot I had to start weight lifting at 13 years old and I mean heavy lifting (always thought that stunted growth due to weight training was a myth!) So yeah, I know that I didn't reach my proper height    >:(

Don't let that fool you. A well known doctor predicted I would be 5'10 when I was 8 and I'm 5'2.
I doubt I lost 8 inches of height because I didn't eat enough veggies.
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Re: Does anyone else feel like they never "grew up"?
« Reply #16 on: August 05, 2015, 01:49:45 PM »

Don't let that fool you. A well known doctor predicted I would be 5'10 when I was 8 and I'm 5'2.
I doubt I lost 8 inches of height because I didn't eat enough veggies.

That is a huge discrepancy. How tall are your parents?
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