Go 8 centimeters on the femurs. I doubt that running fast and jumping high is on your priority list; so you'll be fine and make it maximum heightening. Workout your upper body and detoxicate health-wise during the LL process. You achieve 5'4 or 5'5 then 2-3 inch height increasing shoes. Now, boom - you're 5'7/5'8...with a streamlined physique, a brilliant style, eloquence, and in control. During your downtime as you are "growing"...make sure your mind is growing too. Get your style right, your approach right, and your personal achievement pathway right.
That is the quick answer. I'll reply later on how I have been so successful as a 5'1" male. One preview tip before I get into the major details... Do not listen to weak men. Weak men and woman try to demean you. Strong men uplift you. Be a strong man and be present only with strong men and woman. Note: Most people are weak. Be exceptional. I promise you... that your life will be incredible at any constitutional short stature position so long that you are an exceptional human being. Most people will not be lucky enough to know you because again, most people are judgemental and weak. Keep in mind, you're the strong one, you're the one that has had to endure so much of life dealing with this problem... Only allow exceptional into your life and the rest of the humanoids can commiserate amongst each other in their "average" state of thinking.
I'll return with some pointed details on how you can be successful as a 5'1" man and have both access as well as fantastic results and/or reinforcement from beautiful woman all around. You, my friend, are the unique one AND it is unique which is and shall always be coveted on this planet.