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[Ronman]

173cm here wanting to be atleast 5'10 (178cm)

I am just starting to look at CLL and won't even think about getting the surgery for many many years.

Will just 'fraud' with height shoes and lifts for now. Already I have 6cm shoes and I feel good in them.

My question- if you meet a girl and sleep with her, how does she react if she finds out you are 2 inch taller?

Should I just even get height slippers to wear afterward?!

[Iron_Man]

My girlfriend saw my 5-6cm shoes, she didn't care. I think the main thing is that after you take off your shoes you will not be shorter than your girlfriend

[Ronman]

My girlfriend saw my 5-6cm shoes, she didn't care. I think the main thing is that after you take off your shoes you will not be shorter than your girlfriend

Cool, thanks for your reply.

The reason I asked the question is because I have actually seen women online recommend height shoes to men who are insecure about their height.

Like, they seemed to suggest that it is a legitimate solution  and it wouldn't be frowned upon

[precice strider]

My girlfriend saw my 5-6cm shoes, she didn't care. I think the main thing is that after you take off your shoes you will not be shorter than your girlfriend

That's not always guaranteed...

[Iron_Man]

Well, if a girl is very fixated on male height, then it is not guaranteed. But in this case, I think you won't get to the point where you have to take off your shoes 

[InFullStryde]

If you're only sleeping with them and not concerned about the emotional impact or progress with a woman, I don't believe that wearing shoe lifts means anything.  If she means more to you...then read on!....

Height is a factor with many women out there. Yes, that is true, but and ESPECIALLY, after a woman gets to know you more, height generally isn't nearly as important to a woman.  This is why we see women say....., Oh, I could never date a short man, BUT, I would date Tom Cruise (5'7) or even a funny guy like Ben Stiller (Only 5'6).  They already know these guys from the Hollywood movie screen and they are very attractive as a result of their amazing attributes. The challenge is getting a woman to know and understand you, while you're still short.  That can take some work, especially if she has a preconceived notion regarding short men.  All of this goes away rapidly, once she knows you, and once a woman is attracted to you; she usually will be attracted to you regardless of your height.  Trust me. I know from personal experience, many times.

I used to wear significantly elevated shoes all the time.   My Girlfriend (s), never minded.   I think it has a lot to do with my confidence and overall attributes.   I was a great guy and all of them would say to me that my height wasn't a negative thing.  They loved EVERYTHING about me. They literally would say "EVERYTHING".  Especially if you're a shorter male, a woman totally gets why a man would wear an elevated shoe; just as us men totally get why women wear a padded bra or bra that lifts/pushes, etc.  I wouldn't concern myself with what women think of my lifts, and that is precisely why they didn't care.  I was going to wear them whether she wanted me to or not, ha ha.  Was a thing I did out of my own preference.

One more point - if the shoe elevation shoes prevent you from enjoying life with your significant other; like taking long walks, going bowling, or just lounging comfortably around the house; this can be a real problem.  She has to feel that you're comfortable in your own skin. That is what will keep you desirable to her.

Good luck and feel free to chime in with additional feedback.

All the Best,

IFS