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[mission]

Hi folks I'm new here but have been reading for many many months.  Great forum.

Ok for discretion at this stage I will keep a lot of my details private but here is my situation

I'm approx. 165cm and plan to lengthen femurs using internal method. I'd like to be 173

Recently divorced after 12 years of marriage. Ex wife made a lot of crappy comments about my height since we met and she wanted someone taller when we met but she married me anyway. I looked good and have a good job and career.  I have met a new girl online and we have cammed and spoken for some months now. The problem is she thinks I am 173cm. Yep there is no way she would accept me if I was 165cm. Simple reality. For those that say find someone that will please show me the way because it's not easy. I'm pretty sure this is the girl I'm going to marry. We are serious and both our families know we are. Yeh you guys and girls can judge this won't work or whatever else but I met my last wife this way and well she lasted for 12 years and I have a kid until she took off with another guy. I know what it is like.

At the time I met this girl I was sure I was getting the surgery done and was really seeing if my "hits" on the dating site at 173cm were far greater than 165cm which they were.  Anyway this girl is great person, absolutely hot and young so this has given me the motivation I need.  When you have been divorced once you know what you want and what you don't want. I am sure of her after many months.  I've been wearing lifts and other fill ins for 10+ years and I am sick of it. Unless you are 165cm you just don't know.  This girl is in love with me and I with her. As much as you can be from a spiritual or emotional perspective using chat, cam and phone,  So here is the issue. I planned our first meeting April. I'm not going to be 173cm by then.  So here is what I will do.  I go for a consult next week with a surgeon to do internal femur lengthening overseas (doctor not mentioned for now).  I scrape together the money between now and April. I go into surgery in April and stay with doctor for 2 weeks. I go back to my home country and lengthen until June. Likely I cannot walk without walker.  I fly to meet her in mid June with crutches or walker at the time consolidation begins. I tell her I was hit by a car in April and had to postpone my trip. She will see me on cam and see that I am all busted up.  So in June I go to see her at close or closer to my new height. 

By the way I am super fit and healthy and have recently done an Isokinetic test which showed my results at close to 200 peak torque for my quads at 55degrees and 180 peak torque at 60 degrees. The sports scientists who did this say that my results are on par with some of their professional athletes at their institute of sport.

I do know my flexibility is very poor. Very very poor but I figure I have from now until April to improve this and depending on what I read it can or cannot be an issue. Some doctors say it is important and others say to get 7-8 cm is not a big deal.

So can someone tell me where I have a gap in my thinking to achieve my mission?  My biggest challenge now is scraping the money. The motivation is clear, I will be taller, have  hot young lady who wants a family and kids.  Does anyone see any issues with my plan other than the no brainer issue that it does not work out with the girl and I end up being taller which is great anyway.  Trust me when I say it will work out with this girl.

The challenge when I have the surgery is to be on my own in my house and continue working to make money (office job), doing physio, looking after my current child half the time and live the lie that I was hit by a car which busted both femurs.

Thoughts? 

[KiloKAHN]

If you're cool with keeping the height gain secret, then the only thing I can see throwing a wrench in your plan is an unforeseen complication in your lengthening that makes your lengthening process take longer, in which case you'd need to delay seeing this woman until everything is in order.

[Keep Growing]

Sounds good! This is what I want to do, lengthen my femurs and go to work but I don't know if that is achievable....

[mission]

I think going to work really depends on the method and how comfortable you are.  I could never go to work with external frames in my office job or sleep for that matter but with internal methods I think I can do it. Everything I have read suggests the first two weeks are the worst periods. So I will stay with the doctor in the first two weeks and then once things stabilise I will go home. The biggest issue I see is weight bearing on internals and my concerns in going up and down stairs, going to work etc especially where I live at home alone now and look after a young child. I have a nanny who helps but even so the simple reality is that for 2.5 months I need to move around on two broken legs including travelling a long long flight for any issues which may arise.   So this is the challenge plus potential complications like early union and nerve damage.  But I think the benefits outweigh the risks in my case.