lol opsycat
I think you misunderstand. disobedient is actually defending you, she is not criticizing you.
listing facts is not an insult. and she is stating you are indeed very short in order to validate your decision for needing LL.
she was defending you from the comment of others.
reason being: the other guys are ignorant to discrimination a girl faces, they only understand what guys go through, and even now they are relating the discrimination a guy faces at a certain height to the discrimination a girl faces at a certain height, this only further shows their ignorance because the type of discrimination a guy and girl face are different forms and so cant be compared.
in short there is no girls at X height face the same discrimination as guys at Y height. because their is no same discrimination and guys are trying to interpret and relate to your pain and frustration through situations they have personally experienced, unfortunately they lack the ability to see another persons pain if they have not gone through it themselves.
people usually do this, they try to see the world through a lens of their own experience, and then when they see a new situation they try to filter an understanding of this new issue through previously preconceived paradigms of their own mentality.